Girls and Boys!

[Axel]

this isnt a dating site, you know...

That's what I was thinking...

 

[jbcheerchick93]

hahaha i all over the place. now i like this guy named brian...but he cant find out cause he is pretty much my best friend.

i now know how you feel mouse!!

but its wierd that i like him b/c i usually dont go for the good boy. the blonde haored, blue eyed, good boy that is there all of the time. and a lot of his friends have told me that he likes me and i just dunno

 

[Babyjustrun]

Boring day.
Spoke to him a bit. I had him stare at me for like 2 minutes straight in first period. He came over, sat down next to me and proceeded to stare at me.
I was trying to think of something to say. I couldn't think of anything xD
Otherwise, nothing =/

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

I cant stop blushing!
I need help.
I have issues.
Its not like I can put powder on my face to make it calm down, because it would smudge off in a heart beat.

 

[Babyjustrun]

I have no advice.
I blush at guys that I don't even like.
Anyone can make me smile, and often I start blushing.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

I have no advice.
I blush at guys that I don't even like.
Anyone can make me smile, and often I start blushing.

Yes!
So Im not the only one!!
Okay phew!!

 

[stitchgonecrazy]

well i don't like anyone i haven't really like many people since my last bf who i ended up dumping cos he was a very clingy person(he told my best friend taht i was the one) but ended up going out with one of my friends 3 days later i wasn't very impressed but got over it but she only ended up dumping him for the same reasons

the last person i liked i think was my best friends bf (i know lmao)who payed attention to me aswell i thought he was just being friendly but i find out he acc really liked me and started flirting really badly thats when i knew he was a sort of person i wouldn't at all like he was a jerk she even ended up telling me he also kissed another girl and told her all about it thats when she dumped him but now he's going out with one of my other friend who knows why but ok


so atm i don't like anyone and i'm pretty much single i don't find it bad at all it's pretty fun at times tbh

 

[jbcheerchick93]

I cant stop blushing!
I need help.
I have issues.
Its not like I can put powder on my face to make it calm down, because it would smudge off in a heart beat.

I have no advice.
I blush at guys that I don't even like.
Anyone can make me smile, and often I start blushing.

yall are so not alone!!!

the good thing is that the guys that i normally blush around think that its really cute that i do that. i'll blush, and they say," awww, i made you blush didnt i?!?!?!" and i cant deny it. i just end up saying, yeah, you did......

then sometime later i end up liking them for one reason or another....

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

My problem is, people say "Mmhhmmmm do yo thang!" to me when they see me walk into the room..and...then I cant even look at him anymore.
I stare at the floor.
Yes.
The floor
We used to be able to look in each others eyes but now its like "ahhuhahh...uhm...so..??"

I loved the days when everything was so calm and we were friends, and I wasnt soo stressed with my sweaty palms and mind racing thinking "Why do I like him so flippin much!?".

Its crazy insane, I keep saying "You dont like him" over and over again, but yet I walk in the room and we start talking and my face turns bright red and if he accidentally touches me we start freaking out.

Hes probably freaking out because Im freaking out, and Im freaking out because in my mind its going : "OH MY GOSH. YOUR HANDS ARE WARM but not too sweaty! Nice hands, nice hands indeed!!!", xD

 

[jbcheerchick93]

mouse, mouse, mouse.

unfortuatley for me, i do not get to see him every day.

so his name is brian, and i've known him since i was in 4th grade. we were really close until the beginning of 6th grade, then we kind of lost track of eachother. last thursday we were at the baseball game and were flirting HARD! we got eacothers phone numbers and it was like being back in fourth grade again. this morning he ran out of texts because we have been talking so much. im talking 5 hours a day a lot. cartain things that i say to him he says really really sweet things back. like i was asking him whether i should wear my champion sweatshirt or t shirt the next day. he says to me...u look good in ANYTHING that u wear, and u shuld kno that. it just melted me! and then the next day he is apologing like crazy because he was talking about hanging out with me and my bangin body. (its an inside joke) some of his friends have told me that he likes me. but then he is adament that we are just friends. i think htat we should be friends, but i think i like him A LOT more than that! i honestly feel amazing when he talks to me and i get butterflies everytime

your turn!!!!!! tell me about the guy that you like, again, best friend crushers unite!

 

[Babyjustrun]

I'm too aware of the guy I like. Like, some people can like someone and pay attention to them when they're actually like maybe, a foot away?
But having every class together means I see him in each class, and I can't help but pay attention?

I don't look at his eyes too often. I don't know why. It's usually when he's staring at me, I'll look, catch onto his eyes and I feel like really odd.
Today I realize that his eyes are green, a really pretty tone of green.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

mouse, mouse, mouse.

unfortuatley for me, i do not get to see him every day.

so his name is brian, and i've known him since i was in 4th grade. we were really close until the beginning of 6th grade, then we kind of lost track of eachother. last thursday we were at the baseball game and were flirting HARD! we got eacothers phone numbers and it was like being back in fourth grade again. this morning he ran out of texts because we have been talking so much. im talking 5 hours a day a lot. cartain things that i say to him he says really really sweet things back. like i was asking him whether i should wear my champion sweatshirt or t shirt the next day. he says to me...u look good in ANYTHING that u wear, and u shuld kno that. it just melted me! and then the next day he is apologing like crazy because he was talking about hanging out with me and my bangin body. (its an inside joke) some of his friends have told me that he likes me. but then he is adament that we are just friends. i think htat we should be friends, but i think i like him A LOT more than that! i honestly feel amazing when he talks to me and i get butterflies everytime

your turn!!!!!! tell me about the guy that you like, again, best friend crushers unite!

1. That is soo sweet! I say keep doing what your doing, whatever it is hes not backing away.

2. If a guy tells you what you look good in then its usually..well...a PLUS

3. If guys "joke" around saying that he likes you, or not joke, usually they arent joking. Unless you can really feel it deep down.
For example : the only guy whos ever liked me before, told his friends about me, and when they first met me there like "zomg he totally digs you" and of course im saying "Well thats not true" "*laughs* yeah it is!" I seriously thought they were joking, turns out..he really did like me.

4. I think you should totally wait for a wile and see how things turn out, then slowly (SLOWLY) make signs of how much you like him. I cant exactly give you advice on HOW because only YOU would know that.

5. Im not exactly the best advice giver, because like most things in the world, you kinda have to work at it.

---
Well.
Here it goes.


So, Im not going to tell you how we met, or became friends, because thats just too long of a story.

So basically I like one of my best friends. I mean, Im not one of HIS best friends, but hes definitely one of mine, anyway, hes just too sweet.

We will be talking, and he will remember the conversation where as most guys would be like "yeah..i remember that...funny..ha..whatever" but hes more of "Oh yeah! and then -" or, I will say "I dont want to see that picture again, its ugly" "Girl, I dont know what your issue is, but you are FAR from ugly".

I talk to him every single day.

The problem :

People think we are "lovers" and we are "going out". Those losers, because personally even if he did like me back, I know we wouldn't go out, I just don't believe in that kind of thing YET. He agrees too.
Never had a girlfriend before, which is perfect. I don't know why, but I don't ever have crushes on people who have dated before.

Since thats been going around, things have gotten really tense, my face turns bright red whenever Im around him, I used to be able to look at him in the eyes, and we would be totally connected, but now its like we are connected, but we just CANT look in each others eyes, and everything's a JUMBLE "Eh..ah..iuh...so...", I cant even look at him in general! I have to stare at the floor, so he doesn't see my red face, which Im sure its obvious its there!


Also, I just cant tell him I like him, we spend too much time together for me to risk that, I also cant bring myself to even talk to him like I used to.
I wish I knew who he liked. Everyone says its me, and its obvious its me, but I just doubt it.

 

[reminisce]

anyone here ever been in that situation where you like someone, and finally get their number and start talking to them almost non-stop--only to find out that they have a girlfriend and that theyre in love and all that stuff? thats where i am right now, but to add on to it, he flirts with me a lot--telling me im cute, that he really cares about me, how good i looked that day, that hes there for me, that im really nice and really smart, etc--and it hurts a lot, because its sort of like hes (unknowingly) rubbing it in my face that i cant have him [he goes to his girfriends house every day AND she lives in a different city!] while making sure i cant get over him.

 

[jbcheerchick93]

1. That is soo sweet! I say keep doing what your doing, whatever it is hes not backing away.

2. If a guy tells you what you look good in then its usually..well...a PLUS

3. If guys "joke" around saying that he likes you, or not joke, usually they arent joking. Unless you can really feel it deep down.
For example : the only guy whos ever liked me before, told his friends about me, and when they first met me there like "zomg he totally digs you" and of course im saying "Well thats not true" "*laughs* yeah it is!" I seriously thought they were joking, turns out..he really did like me.

4. I think you should totally wait for a wile and see how things turn out, then slowly (SLOWLY) make signs of how much you like him. I cant exactly give you advice on HOW because only YOU would know that.

5. Im not exactly the best advice giver, because like most things in the world, you kinda have to work at it.

---
Well.
Here it goes.


So, Im not going to tell you how we met, or became friends, because thats just too long of a story.

So basically I like one of my best friends. I mean, Im not one of HIS best friends, but hes definitely one of mine, anyway, hes just too sweet.

We will be talking, and he will remember the conversation where as most guys would be like "yeah..i remember that...funny..ha..whatever" but hes more of "Oh yeah! and then -" or, I will say "I dont want to see that picture again, its ugly" "Girl, I dont know what your issue is, but you are FAR from ugly".

I talk to him every single day.

The problem :

People think we are "lovers" and we are "going out". Those losers, because personally even if he did like me back, I know we wouldn't go out, I just don't believe in that kind of thing YET. He agrees too.
Never had a girlfriend before, which is perfect. I don't know why, but I don't ever have crushes on people who have dated before.

Since thats been going around, things have gotten really tense, my face turns bright red whenever Im around him, I used to be able to look at him in the eyes, and we would be totally connected, but now its like we are connected, but we just CANT look in each others eyes, and everything's a JUMBLE "Eh..ah..iuh...so...", I cant even look at him in general! I have to stare at the floor, so he doesn't see my red face, which Im sure its obvious its there!


Also, I just cant tell him I like him, we spend too much time together for me to risk that, I also cant bring myself to even talk to him like I used to.
I wish I knew who he liked. Everyone says its me, and its obvious its me, but I just doubt it.

first of all thanks!!!

AH HA!!! so you are one of those girls. i have many friends like you....you just cant believe it when people tell you that he likes you.

1. does he remember specific converdations with other people?? because that is normally a HUGE hint that someone likes you.

2. like you said to me, he is telling you that you look good, and that is a huge plus. especially if he says it and it makes you feel butterflies.

3. if you two have talked about not going out until your older, then you should just say to him tomorrow, i really wish that people werent saying ___________ because we already have talked about why we dont go out with people at this age.

4. aww. he makes you blush. if you looked at him, he probably is too.

i think that i have good advice. i didnt give too much here, and seeing as i dont see you two interact, i cant say for sure. but it sounds like you two like eachother, and maybe you two could, wait for eachother?

just tryong to help!!

and thanks! i needed another view of what happened

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

first of all thanks!!!
4. aww. he makes you blush. if you looked at him, he probably is too.

Oh my goodness dont even mention it!


That totally made my day!


Uhm, Im not sure, its interesting. Ive seen him with his guy friends before, but I mean, I don't know. He acts different around me.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

anyone here ever been in that situation where you like someone, and finally get their number and start talking to them almost non-stop--only to find out that they have a girlfriend and that theyre in love and all that stuff? thats where i am right now, but to add on to it, he flirts with me a lot--telling me im cute, that he really cares about me, how good i looked that day, that hes there for me, that im really nice and really smart, etc--and it hurts a lot, because its sort of like hes (unknowingly) rubbing it in my face that i cant have him [he goes to his girfriends house every day AND she lives in a different city!] while making sure i cant get over him.

Im sooo sorry.
Yes, Ive been in that situation before, it was awful, but I was little, and it didnt hurt as much.



Im so sorry!

 

[Axel]

So today was another track meet and another round of Ryan wondering why the heck John and I aren't dating yet. I'm sitting on the bleachers, eating my skittles and drinking my orange soda and I said something regarding John and a comment he made earlier (it was a misspeak- he said "My mom broke up with my boyfriend") and John smirked, blushed, and play punched me while jokingly telling me to shut up, so I play punched him back and Ryan was all "I still can't believe you two aren't going out" and John really started to blush (and so did I, according to Katie) and didn't say anything, he just kinda looked anywhere but us. It was cute, like he's shy or something because he let me use him as a pillow again towards the end of the meet.

 

[Sparx]

So today was another track meet and another round of Ryan wondering why the heck John and I aren't dating yet. I'm sitting on the bleachers, eating my skittles and drinking my orange soda and I said something regarding John and a comment he made earlier (it was a misspeak- he said "My mom broke up with my boyfriend") and John smirked, blushed, and play punched me while jokingly telling me to shut up, so I play punched him back and Ryan was all "I still can't believe you two aren't going out" and John really started to blush (and so did I, according to Katie) and didn't say anything, he just kinda looked anywhere but us. It was cute, like he's shy or something because he let me use him as a pillow again towards the end of the meet.

ask him out or i'll do it for you.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Awwwww ♥
I love hearing your stories!

 

[Axel]

anyone here ever been in that situation where you like someone, and finally get their number and start talking to them almost non-stop--only to find out that they have a girlfriend and that theyre in love and all that stuff? thats where i am right now, but to add on to it, he flirts with me a lot--telling me im cute, that he really cares about me, how good i looked that day, that hes there for me, that im really nice and really smart, etc--and it hurts a lot, because its sort of like hes (unknowingly) rubbing it in my face that i cant have him [he goes to his girfriends house every day AND she lives in a different city!] while making sure i cant get over him.

I've been in a similar situation, not the same, but close. Freshman year I dated a guy named Colin for a while. He left my school in February (one week before Valentine's day) to be homeschooled because his mom didn't like the school system. Well, I called and we chatted over the phone almost daily and the entire time he had me convinced he was still in town. I fell hard for this kid, he was sweet he like me, and he was very gentlemanly (even if he was a punker). Well, he told me in June that he was going to be moving to his dad's for the summer (conveniently nowhere near where I would be) and I was all "ok" and he promised to try and make it up to see me as often as possible. He got up here twice and I was cool with that. He didn't have his own car and he was supposedly 2 hours away. Well, the week before school starts he calls me and says he's transfering back in to my school. I was so excited. The second week of school he broke up with me. I was devastated. His excuse was that "we didn't see each other enough". He was just getting back to a place where we could see each other and he was breaking up with me. Well, later that day before volleyball practice I checked my phone. A mutual friend of ours had called and left a message asking me to call her back ASAP. I did and the first thing she said was "Has Colin broken up with you yet?" and I said "Yes. Just today." and she said "Well, he told me he broke up with you back in August when we started dating, but I heard somebody mention that you two just broke up so I wanted to double check." I was even more devastated. I couldn't focus during practice.

The next day I walked up to him and slapped him so hard I left a handprint for the rest of the day, I called him a lying, cheating ******* and nobody saw a thing because they knew he deserved it. He got beat up pretty bad by some of my other friends, too. The girl he cheated on my with had his baby that April. He isn't involved with her anymore and the kid is the product of a one-night stand. He pays child support as a high-school dropout. He was a father at 16 with no idea what to do so he basically abandoned this kid. He tried to make it up to me a week later by saying that "he didn't mean to hurt me" and that he "hoped I understood" and I slapped him again and I haven't talked to him since.