Tattoos look make people look low class, you should reconsider.
Rude comments make people sound low class, you should reconsider.
Thank you! That was very helpful. I actually kinda got excited to watch but then I realized I wouldn't be able to see since it's on my back. HAHA.
I have reconsidered. Several times. Like I said, I have wanted a tatoo for a loooong time and have wanted this particular one for maybe 4-5 years. I have thought about it long and hard. I am getting it on my shoulder so that I can hide it when I need to and show it off when I want to. My mom does not like tattoos. My dad has one, which he hid from both my mom's family and his family for a good year before he "accidently" left it uncovered one day. They both know I want one and know that I have thought about it a lot. My mom's "rules" for me getting one were:
1. I had to be 18
2. I had to think about it long and hard and KNOW that I really wanted it
3. It had to be in a place that I could cover if I had to
I don't think tattoos make anybody "low class". I think if it is something that you really want and has meaning to you, they are awesome. I think it is the people judging that are "low class". Judge all you want, but the fact that I am doing something that means a lot to me makes me anything but "low class".
I have the same rules for my kids, except the part about being able to cover it. DD21 still doesn't have any, DD13 has no interest right now and neither does DD10, except to ask if it hurt when I got mine done.
OP gave her reasons in her OP.
Don't do it, it's stupid and you will regret it.
How do you know she will regret it? I have 1 and 2 others in the planning stages, I don't regret it at all. You might regret one you have but not all of us do.

That was good.
Yes, it was good.
OP I got my first tat at 31, my tattoo artist had me pick a movie to watch (I chose Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade which was just about long enough) while I was getting inked, she had me pick a second movie just in case because my art was going to take at least 2 hours, the movie credits were running as she finished up.

She also told me not to take any pain relievers as they are blood thinners and it does make you bleed more, she said she wouldn't finish it if I bled too much, instead she gives suckers out. If I remember right she said the pain makes your endorphines kick in and the sugar in the suckers help produce more endorphines so it helps mask the pain. I really don't know if that's right but it seemed to have worked for me. I have a VERY low pain tolerance, my tat took at least 2 hours and it's what is commonly referred to as a "tramp stamp", it's in the middle of my lower back and goes to the sides, it's a tribal butterfly and it's pretty big. I must have had 6 suckers, maybe more. LOL The only place it really "hurt" was right on the edges of my spine, otherwise it tickled or "zinged" in places but didn't hurt much at all. My next one my DD21 is helping me design, it's a Tink with my girls' intials and flowers and vines, it will be on my right ankle, the other one I want to tie in with my back tat, it will go up my ribs and onto my shoulder. At least that's the plan, but I haven't decided just yet.

Lately I've been thinking that I want shooting stars behind my ear or on my foot but......LOL I tend to think these things out too, I want to make sure it's something I want forever.
BTW, I thought about my first one for about 5 years before I finally did it, I've been thinking of the others I want for about the same amount of time.
