Geez you guys are a rough crowd! LOL, not being able to post from home really puts a crimp in my posting here, since work has been super busy all month...
In a nutshell, the date went very well, and we are planning to see each other again next week...Jim is 52, widowed 2 years, no kids...graduated Magna Cum Laude with his Masters in Theological Studies...very intelligent, very funny and witty...great conversation, had a great time...spent over 5 hours together...met early in a town about an hour from me, a little farther for him, he knew the town, so we walked around one of the nice little college campuses, sat in the gazebo and chatted, then walked through an Amish/Mennonite furniture store( I love that stuff) where he proceeded to make the poor little amish woman think we were shopping for dining room furniture for our home, ( lol very funny guy) had dinner, sat there for 2 hours talking, then he insisted on Dairy Queen ( OMG ) where I gave in to 3 bites of vanilla ice cream, then made him eat the rest! OK, so are y'all happy now?!!!
Unbelieveably enough, I get home, go online, where I have been cranky about Ken's absences for weeks at a time...even though I know why he is out of touch, it still ticks me off...and there he is, waiting for me on yahoo messenger...I had sent him a rather scathing message, saying I thought he wasnt planning to come back right away and was just stringing me along, and how I didnt appreciate it, etc etc...so it turns out he had FALLEN on the rig and was in the hospital for 10 days! OMG, so now I felt guilty and terrible, but I just said I was so sorry, and he said he was somewhat confused at my message, and that he couldnt wait to get back here to prove to me that he is telling me the truth and all is going to be well...

I had grumbled about the lack of contact to a friend who is in IT for a nuclear company here, and she told me that he is not b.s. ing me, that China cell phones are on a whole different band that is not compatible with any other country, and that their internet connectivity problems are legendary...so I guess maybe the lack of contact really has been out of his control...
So I am leaving it all in the hands of the Lord! I see no harm in continuing to spend time with Jim once a week, and if Ken gets back in March, then I imagine it will just all sort itself out!
So sorry I havent caught up on posts, so hope you are all well...please e-mail me if something comes up I need to know about! I have managed to download Google Chrome Beta to my home computer, so will attempt to log on from that browser later tonight. I am pulling a ridiculous shift on Saturday as a favor to the big boss, and working from 8am to 11pm!! Someone please kick me and tell me I am NUTS!!!