Free or Discounted Passes for children who just lost father in car accident

[sjbrown22]

Hello,

Sorry if this isnt the right place. Im writing on behalf of my friend Danielle. Her husband Brian, died in a motorcycle accident on the 31st of May. We have all been trying to help emotionally and financially as he was the sole provider for her and her 2 children ages 3 and 5. I was wondering if anybody knew of discounted tickets or even free tickets that could be given to this family so that they can take a break from everything they have been through lately. Thanks in advance

 

[patty57]

There is a company called Undercover Tourist that sells WDW tickets at a discount, or maybe AAA. Neither of those are a very big discount though. I don't know of any organizations that give free WDW tickets, except for Make A Wish, which gives WDW trips to kids with life-threatening illnesses.

 

[Jennifer81]

Have you thought of trying starting a fund raiser? Theres a web site... www. go fund me . com Take out the spaces
Sorry to hear about this tragedy.

 

[Raenstoirm]

I would go to the local media. That type of human interest story tends to work well with local papers and news. They my be willing to foot the bill.

 

[anonymousegirl]

If the father was the sole earner for the family, I would imagine an expensive vacation would be the last thing to spend money on. I suspect the widow is going to have a hard time with the mortgage, utilities, and grocery bill. Not to mention the funeral arrangements, hospital bills, etc.

My heart goes out to this family, but maybe it's time to be practical.

 

[tinktinktink]

If the father was the sole earner for the family, I would imagine an expensive vacation would be the last thing to spend money on. I suspect the widow is going to have a hard time with the mortgage, utilities, and grocery bill. Not to mention the funeral arrangements, hospital bills, etc. My heart goes out to this family, but maybe it's time to be practical.

I was thinking the same thing. Even if the park tickets were free she would still have to take time off work assuming she will be working at the time of the trip and the cost of travel, lodging and food. I do think it would be a great break for them, but with everything else this mother is going through now being the sole provider a Disney trip may be added stress.

 

[cleverclovers]

I agree. it's time to be practical. The emotional roller coaster the family is on is going needs time to settle. They need time to try and figure out what to do next. Mom will have to find a job and childcare. Budgets will have to be adjusted. Bills will come out of nowhere. Even "free" vacations require clothing, meals, and other expenses that the family might not be able to afford at this time.

 

[Momof2Singers]

My heart goes out to this family. I agree with a lot of what is being posted. I do know that if my daughter's father just passed away, the last thing they would want is to go on vacation without him, especially some where like Disney, they would be crushed trying to experience this without him. We would have so many other things to work out, after all, its been less than 2 weeks. I know it sounds like a good opportunity but I really don't think it is the right time.

I sincerely hope they have family and friends to support them during this very difficult time. It appears you already are doing that by trying to help.

 

[JimmyV]

We have all been trying to help emotionally and financially as he was the sole provider for her and her 2 children ages 3 and 5.

Good idea.
Trying to plan a trip to WDW for them......bad idea.
They will go on their own time and on their own dime when they are ready. If they cannot afford to go at this time, then by definition, they are not ready. Even the best of intentions cannot accelerate the grieving or healing process.

 

[CinderElsa]

Amazing what Google can tell us...

I don't think the local media is an option given that the man in question led police on a dangerous high-speed chase (120 mph) that ended in a crash & his arrest in February. He was then charged with driving without a license, resisting arrest, and felony burglary.

It seems he wasn't so lucky the second time. Fortunately, the elderly woman whose car he hit after running a red light was unharmed.

My heart goes out to your friend & her children, but they are Florida residents and are already eligible for discounted passes - and I do not think this is an appropriate request for this forum.

 

[MartDM]

Um...wow!

 

[BoardWalkBelle]

wow..how did you kow what to google?

 

[CinderElsa]

wow..how did you kow what to google?

I won't post any links, but if you search for the names given plus "motorcycle accident" and the date, you'll get results from a FL newspaper - the names & family details match when you read the comments.

 

[lam0037]

Regardless of the incident surrounding his death, his family is still adjusting and grieving. I definitely agree with others who mentioned practicality is key.

I lost my father suddenly October of 2012 when I was 20 and a similar situation, where my father was the sole provider and paid for what was left of my school after scholarships. My mom is still living off life insurance money because she hasn't worked since they were married and is still having a hard time adjusting to not having him around.

6 months after he passed away, my mom and I went to Disney for my spring break as we both needed a break and already had AP. Family members helped pay for the rest and it was nice to not just be at home and at school. But my father loved Disney and it was hard going without him. I don't think I've ever cried at Disney until this trip. I think it is great that you want to help and a break is sometimes needed during this time but let it come on it's own time when it is affordable and they are ready. You could always help pay for a weekend trip to a closer attraction or beach or even just offer to watch the kids and send her to a spa or something.

And it is soon. For two weeks we didn't really do anything, and honestly the shock still hadn't worn off during our trip

 

[Legendteri]

I know this might not be something you want to hear, but speaking as someone who has lost a child, my advice for the grieving family is to let them grieve and be sad. Just let them be sad. There truly is nothing worse then grieving for your lost loved one and people around you keep trying to cheer you up. There were times I wanted to scream " My God people, my baby died, just let me be sad."

In my honest opinion, a trip to DW simply isn't an appropriate gift at this time. Any money that could go towards a trip would be infinitely more helpful if it went towards grief counseling.

 

[disneyfan55]

I agree with all of you and funny the OP hasn't been back. Sad but I hardly think Disney tickets are the way to go in time of need and hardship. Maybe some aid with funeral expenses, food and housing bills would be more of a help. Sorry to hear about the loss and sorry for the widow and especially the little ones.

 

[harrowgirl]

Amazing what Google can tell us...

I don't think the local media is an option given that the man in question led police on a dangerous high-speed chase (120 mph) that ended in a crash & his arrest in February. He was then charged with driving without a license, resisting arrest, and felony burglary.

It seems he wasn't so lucky the second time. Fortunately, the elderly woman whose car he hit after running a red light was unharmed.

My heart goes out to your friend & her children, but they are Florida residents and are already eligible for discounted passes - and I do not think this is an appropriate request for this forum.

And strange that his widow isn't listed in his obituary

 

[tinkerpea]

Amazing what Google can tell us...

I don't think the local media is an option given that the man in question led police on a dangerous high-speed chase (120 mph) that ended in a crash & his arrest in February. He was then charged with driving without a license, resisting arrest, and felony burglary.

It seems he wasn't so lucky the second time. Fortunately, the elderly woman whose car he hit after running a red light was unharmed.

My heart goes out to your friend & her children, but they are Florida residents and are already eligible for discounted passes - and I do not think this is an appropriate request for this forum.

I don't understand why this was needed!!!!!
Does it change the fact the family is grieving? No!
Is there still 2 children without a farther yes!
Why people feel the need to go this far into somebody's personal life is way beyond me.how sad you must be to feel the need to do this.

 

[firecracker725]

I don't understand why this was needed!!!!! Does it change the fact the family is grieving? No! Is there still 2 children without a farther yes! Why people feel the need to go this far into somebody's personal life is way beyond me.how sad you must be to feel the need to do this.

It's necessary because there have been far too many on this forum who have used sob stories to gain donations for their scams. It has made many skeptical and this poster likely just wanted to vet the story. I don't blame him/her at all.

 

[Travelgrrl]

I disagree. The OP painted a picture of an unwitting accident victim, and it turns out the guy was a reckless driver, a felon, and a repeat offender who ended up squandering his life and almost took someone else's.

People who were helpfully suggesting to turn to the media to fund this, obviously understand that's not an option, given the facts of the case.

I feel sorry for the wife and kids!