FREAP CHAT Part 2 ~ Everyone Welcome to our new digs

[AlexWyattMommy]

Glad to hear the PT is starting to work for you guys. It can not be any fun being pain.

 

[SHAYMARAYSMOM]

I am kinda in a funk today. I have a boss that I would love to slap. I have three bosses and in pecking order there is boss A that is great would not trade him for the world. Boss B is also great. These two are so worried about me being sick and are always making sure I am okay. Then there is boss C who I have decided I will no longer speak to unless it is work related. He has made a couple of remarks that have just hurt me to the core of my sole. I thought for a while it was just me being moody with everything going on. But it is not me. One of my friends from another department ended up yelling at him for a something he said. He has decided that me being sick is a drama in his life that I threw at him. He is so sweet. Not. So today he made a couple of rude remarks to me when I was trying help him to his job. So I nicely said I think we can no longer deal with each other so you will need to find someone else to show you how to do this. I got up and work from his office to mine. But what I wanted to do is slap him and then call DH JOhn and have him come up and slap the sh&t out of him.

 

[pperfectmom]

Kellie-don't you just love people like that who think that your being sick is a direct threat to him? Yeah, you really got sick just to make his life more complicated. What is WRONG with people?!?!?! I'm so sorry that you have one more crummy thing to deal with.

 

[AlexWyattMommy]

I'm sorry too. I grew up with a person like that. Couldn't wait to get away from home. Sometimes I still want to slap them.


Hope you don't have to work around him too much.

 

[mtblujeans]

It's a miracle! A christmas miracle!

Or, as we say at our house, a Festivus Miracle!

 

[mtblujeans]

Kellie, you were sooooo professional in the way you dealt with him and DIDN'T give him the thrashing he deserved....I am so proud of you! You didn't just let him know he was being inappropriate, you also let him know to stay away from you....which is the best thing for him!

Bring that crap to us....we'll keep your spirits up!

 

[SHAYMARAYSMOM]

Thanks guys. You are the best.
Suz I am glad you are doing better. It is good the PT is helping you already.
Oh Miss Madd I am also glad you are feeling better. It is nice to know that you do not have to get the shot. It sounds like you found a good Dr.
Well Monday I will be back at the DRs and we will have everything all set up for my surgeory. I hope to have some time for a fast trip with my DD Shaunna(aka Shaymaray). My bosses (that would be the two good ones) told me to go and do what I need to do. So Depending on what they say Monday morning I will go from there.

But on a good note my DB went on a trip to Vegas for work this week and he brought me back lots of goodies. He was not going to go because he wanted to stay and make sure ai was okay but I told him I had John and I needed goodies from Vegas.

 

[maddhatir]

I am kinda in a funk today. I have a boss that I would love to slap. I have three bosses and in pecking order there is boss A that is great would not trade him for the world. Boss B is also great. These two are so worried about me being sick and are always making sure I am okay. Then there is boss C who I have decided I will no longer speak to unless it is work related. He has made a couple of remarks that have just hurt me to the core of my sole. I thought for a while it was just me being moody with everything going on. But it is not me. One of my friends from another department ended up yelling at him for a something he said. He has decided that me being sick is a drama in his life that I threw at him. He is so sweet. Not. So today he made a couple of rude remarks to me when I was trying help him to his job. So I nicely said I think we can no longer deal with each other so you will need to find someone else to show you how to do this. I got up and work from his office to mine. But what I wanted to do is slap him and then call DH JOhn and have him come up and slap the sh&t out of him.

Does boss A and B know about this??! What would they think?

That is just disgusting- but you did a great job handling it!

 

[mtblujeans]

Glad to hear the PT is starting to work for you guys. It can not be any fun being pain.

I was surprised at how painful this procedure was....but it could have been worse. They didn't cut away at the tissue I expected them to and I don't know what that would have been like to recover from. Maybe the same, maybe not. The therapist told me, yesterday, that I can do whatever I want with that knee because they "didn't take anything out". I hadn't thought of it like that.

I have a friend on one of the DIS boards that broke her ankle last year and it has never healed. She has already been through a couple of surgeries and she faces more. She jokes about her situation but, now, I appreciate so much more what she has been going through. I can't imagine the pain she must be enduring and can't understand how she keeps such a positive disposition!! I let a few days of pain get to me. I have some friends, here, who are facing much worse than my temporary set-back yet they have been very supportive and compassionate. And I appreciate you all greatly.

 

[mtblujeans]

Thanks guys. You are the best.
Suz I am glad you are doing better. It is good the PT is helping you already.
Oh Miss Madd I am also glad you are feeling better. It is nice to know that you do not have to get the shot. It sounds like you found a good Dr.
Well Monday I will be back at the DRs and we will have everything all set up for my surgeory. I hope to have some time for a fast trip with my DD Shaunna(aka Shaymaray). My bosses (that would be the two good ones) told me to go and do what I need to do. So Depending on what they say Monday morning I will go from there.

But on a good note my DB went on a trip to Vegas for work this week and he brought me back lots of goodies. He was not going to go because he wanted to stay and make sure ai was okay but I told him I had John and I needed goodies from Vegas.

What did he bring you? Anything good to eat??

 

[SHAYMARAYSMOM]

Does boss A and B know about this??! What would they think?

That is just disgusting- but you did a great job handling it!

I think boss A has an idea since he was asking me questions today that normally he would not ask. If boss B knew he would smack him.

I will get even with him. All his end of the month reports that I normally do for him are not done. He has no idea how to do them so come Monday when he is looking for me to help him out and I am not there he will freak. I also just happened to not let him know that the CEO is running the meeting Monday. OOPS. I know he will not even think to say anything bad about me ther since the CEO is my buddy who loves me. It is going to suck to be him.

 

[SHAYMARAYSMOM]

no food but. shirts and shot glasses and sweatshirts.
I plan on checking out the shot glasses to make sure they do not leak

 

[mtblujeans]

no food but. shirts and shot glasses and sweatshirts.
I plan on checking out the shot glasses to make sure they do not leak

Yep, make sure they fit your hand!

 

[AlexWyattMommy]

And be sure to try different things in each glass to be sure it doesn't alter the taste of said things.

 

[maddhatir]

Or, as we say at our house, a Festivus Miracle!

 

[SHAYMARAYSMOM]

And be sure to try different things in each glass to be sure it doesn't alter the taste of said things.

good idea i did not think of that.
I would hate for the glasses to alter a good shot.
Hey do you think it will be bad for me to show up Monday at the DRs with a hangover?

 

[AlexWyattMommy]

Depends on the doctor, I guess.

 

[It's A Happy Day]

I am kinda in a funk today. I have a boss that I would love to slap. I have three bosses and in pecking order there is boss A that is great would not trade him for the world. Boss B is also great. These two are so worried about me being sick and are always making sure I am okay. Then there is boss C who I have decided I will no longer speak to unless it is work related. He has made a couple of remarks that have just hurt me to the core of my sole. I thought for a while it was just me being moody with everything going on. But it is not me. One of my friends from another department ended up yelling at him for a something he said. He has decided that me being sick is a drama in his life that I threw at him. He is so sweet. Not. So today he made a couple of rude remarks to me when I was trying help him to his job. So I nicely said I think we can no longer deal with each other so you will need to find someone else to show you how to do this. I got up and work from his office to mine. But what I wanted to do is slap him and then call DH JOhn and have him come up and slap the sh&t out of him.

What an idiot!!!! Nice to see you've been bouncing back from the bug you have but it sucks that people just can't monitor their mouths. Come monday he will be wishing he had a restart or cntrl-alt-delete so he could remove those things he said. I am amazed at your take it in stride attitude and don't know if I would/could be as strong. This disease has affected way to many people and I hope that they do find a cure soon....my grandmother has 3 more radiation treatments (total 40) this upcoming week and she will be DONE!!! We are planning a little cake/dinner celebration for Wednesday after it's done. Keep your chin up Shay, and remember there are plenty of us freaps in the neighborhood, we could plan a lynching if we need to

 

[SHAYMARAYSMOM]

What an idiot!!!! Nice to see you've been bouncing back from the bug you have but it sucks that people just can't monitor their mouths. Come monday he will be wishing he had a restart or cntrl-alt-delete so he could remove those things he said. I am amazed at your take it in stride attitude and don't know if I would/could be as strong. This disease has affected way to many people and I hope that they do find a cure soon....my grandmother has 3 more radiation treatments (total 40) this upcoming week and she will be DONE!!! We are planning a little cake/dinner celebration for Wednesday after it's done. Keep your chin up Shay, and remember there are plenty of us freaps in the neighborhood, we could plan a lynching if we need to

I am so glad for your grandmother. Give her a big hug for me.
Boss number 3 will learn someday the hard way. My thought on the whole thing is I have a bigger fight going on in my world that I can not waste my engery on him.
But you will love this. One of the girls I work with sent me an e-mail last night saying how he stopped by to talk to her and wanted to know why I seem to be so cold to him and not speaking to him. So she then decided to go off on him and tell him why. He told her the only reason he is doing this is he is so afraid with everything going on that he does not know how or what to say to me. She told him maybe saying something nice would be good instead of being the rude jerk he has been. But I told her I will still not deal with him unless it is work related. I hardly beleive him. I think he is afraid if the other bosses find out it will have a bad ending for him.

 

[jeankeri]

It is now time for the airing of grievances- letting those close to us know what disappointments they have been over the past year. Kellie, you're first. Anything you'd like to say about boss #3?