Just got done reading through the whole thread!

Had a lot of time as I rip DW and my CD library for the new mp3 player I got for our drive down. Here is what we have decided on:
DW, DS and I are going down in July for 10 days. We check into SSR on Sunday 7/15 and check out on Wed 7/25. DS will be just shy of 9 months old at the time of the trip. At first I was planning on leaving early Saturday and drive straight down to Savannah, GA. We would be staying in the Fairfield Inn right off of I95 south. From where we are in NY (right above the NJ border) it looked to be about 13-14 hours.
After reading halfway through the thread I made the smart decision that that plan was a little too ambitious with a baby. So I added a stop and we will be leaving on Friday the 13th

and driving to Stafford, VA (right below DC) and staying at the Holiday Inn Express. Now the drive is 4.5 hours on Friday night (dependent on Friday night traffic), about 9 hours on Saturday, and finally about 4.5 hours on Sunday. In time to relax and be rested for our ADR at Le'Cellier!
Now to plan the drive home

We have friends in Raleigh that we might try to visit on the way home so not sure if we will use the same hotels. Thinking of stopping in Florence, SC on Wed night and on to Raleigh the next day. I think that is about 7.5 hours on Wed. Might be too much, dependent on what time we leave WDW.
Thanks everyone for the great thread.
-Matthew