I too agree with the "don't try to do everything", first of all you can't do it, and even if you could - you would probably kill each other in the process. On our first trip to WDW we tried it & it almost made us never want to go back. I said almost!
As far as character meals... try Breakfast with Goofy & Friends over at the Beach Club. You're right there, maybe you do that on a pool day. Get up, head over to the BC have breakfast - back to the pool - at parade time head over to MGM or MK and catch the parade stay till closing, then back to the resort.
You are so close to MGM & Epcot I recommend heading over to those parks - catch a few attractions (the MUST DOs) then leave. Since you are so close you can do that almost "at will". It is kind of neat to have those two parks "right at your doorstep". Take advantage of it.
One last suggestion with regard to MK... we have discovered that as our kids have gotten older we use E-Ticket nights as our MK day. E-Ticket nights are reserved for WDW Resort guests only. The tickets are an additional chrage (this is terrible but I can't remember the cost & we only did it May). There are not that expensive <$20?). MK stays open until 1:00am (for those with E-Tickets). The most popular rides are open (Space Mountain, Alien, Splash Mountain, Buzz Lightyear, Big Thunder Railroad, Pirates of the Caribbean, and I'm sure there are others). There are practically no lines - in May we road Space Mountain 6 times in a row (rode, got off, back in line, rode,etc...), same at Big Thunder except we never even got off the ride- just stayed on over & over until we were tired. So here's what we like to do. We head over about 4:00 - 5:00 in the afternoon do all of the things we want to do that will not be available during E-Ticket, then we watch the parade and wait till park closes then we do the E-Rides. I will tell you that we haven't done it in Nov - so you'll just have to check on hours & when (or even if) they will have an E-ticket night. You can purchase tickets right at the resort. Even if you don't use it this trip - file it away & next trip you might be able to take advantage. And since it is your first trip you may want to give MK a full day anyway.