We're leaving the day after you with our daughter who sounds to be a few months older than yours and she is soo excited as well. (Me too!) We are doing the ring chain countdown and while I don't know that she totally understands what that's all about, she loves to "cut a ring off" every day.
We've also been watching tons of Disney movies and talking about all the things we're going to do. We talk specifically about who we're going to meet and eat with and the other things we have planned. She keeps saying she wants a princess to hold her hands and dance with her. I don't know where she got that, a commercial I guess, and I hope one or more of them will oblige her! Also we've talked a lot about eating breakfast with the princesses and she insists that they all eat bagels. I've told her that probably they will just visit with her while she eats her bagel. Oh, and she's all over wearing her princess dresses for the princesses. I wasn't going to drag all those crappy dresses with us but we watched some videos that showed other girls wearing theirs so I guess I'm out of luck on that. I bought a really cute book of It's a Small World and she loves reading it and singing the song. I suspect we'll take a few boat roads through the World!
We've watched some rides on
Youtube, which I know some people avoid so they won't spoil the surprise but for her age, I thought it was worth it to familiarize her with the idea. (Plus she went when she was about 18 months old so it's not like it's all totally brand new. Even though it feels like it is. She is SO much more into the characters, especially the princesses, than she was last time we went.) Our first park day was the supposed last day that Pirates was going to be open so I wanted to make sure to get a FP+ for that. However, when we watched the ride she seemed pretty scared and didn't even want to finish the video. I don't want to terrify her on her first day so I scrapped that one for this trip. That made me glad we watched the videos. One of my family legends is that when my parents took us as kids, the first ride we went on was Snow White's Scary Adventure and we were traumatized. We spent the rest of the trip riding Dumbo and my parents always talk about what a nightmare that was so I definitely want to build up to some of the darker ride experiences!
One other thing we've been trying to do is take lots of walks with her in her stroller. She hadn't really spent that much time riding in her stroller in the past year or so and I wanted to kind of get her used to doing that again. She doesn't love it, but I'm hoping that with the excitement and the crowds around her that won't turn into a huge fight.
All that said, I'd love to hear anybody else's ideas on the topic or getting a toddler ready. We are so excited for our trip that we love doing anything we can to prepare for it!