Hi everyone

mommasita: Congratulations for your DS and his college acceptance. Very exciting!! I know when we see our kids happy it does a world of good for us, too. tiggspring: I can relate to how you felt almost too tired to go to your hair appt. In the last few years I have cancelled more appointments (doctors, hair, nails, medical testing, etc) than I ever have in my life. I try to make myself go. In fact, I've been cancelling my mammogram appts for the last couple of years and I really need to reschedule and get that done.

pannm: It breaks my heart to read about your DD. I hope that the swmming will help her to feel a little better, emotionally as well as physically. I'm glad that her massage made her feel a little better. I've heard from several people that massage is excellent for people with fibro. pitterpint: Welcome!!

This is a great thread and a place where we can vent, complain, ask questions, etc, and everyone here totally understands and are compassionate.

I'm sorry you're dealing with this at such a young age. 1girln3boys: Welcome

I have fibromyalgia and also RA, so I understand about neither ALL sitting or ALL moving/walking being the right thing. For the last several years I've rented an electric
scooter to use while at WDW because otherwise I wouldn't last a day or two, fatigue-wise. When I need to get up and stretch my muscles and move my joints my awesome husband has to get into the scooter and drive it a bit. I'm sure that to onlookers it appears that neither of us NEED the scooter and just use it to get through lines quicker.

rosanab: Club 33 - how exciting!!!! Let us know how it was.

me: Working for a few weeks with mandatory extra hours was rough. It doesn't take much to throw me out of balance, so to speak. I had some vacation days this past week so I'm feeling pretty good right now. I do have work tomorrow, though. DH has been off all week so I've been sleeping in a little later than usual too, since I usually get up when he gets up. Today was a nice, low-key day here. DH made his usual turkey, and I made the side dishes. The best part was that it was ONLY my family of 4. No guests, no going out. My family all live in NJ, and DH's only brother died this past year, and his only sister lives in VA, so that left his father and his step-mother who live nearby, and DH decided to not invite them over. We really needed to spend this day with just US.

We slept in and DH put the turkey into the oven before we had breakfast. If we were having company we would've had to stick to a schedule. It was nice to finally not have to do that.

Anyway, I have a little mom-brag about my younger DS. He graduated college this past May, and a month later he was hired as a paid intern in Boston. He loved the job and was hoping that they would ask him to stay on permanently. But as the time for his internship came closer to end, the less he felt that they were going to. A couple of weeks ago he came home with a folder and a written job offer/contract from them. Talk about exciting!!! For years we had been telling him that he will probably not be able to find a job in his field right away and that it could take years. And now here he was just a few months out of college and he has a job he loves, a great company, great benefits, great salary, and just a short walk from the train stop in Boston. We are so proud of him. He has mild Asperger's, and he's continually pushed himself out of his comfort zone. A few years ago he wouldn't have even considered taking a job in Boston (we live in a quiet suburb), and now here he is a commuter, and saying he eventually wants to get an apartment in the city.

As for my older DS, he's doing ok. He's the one that I worry about. He's had a rough time of it, and it's a long, slow climb to get to where he wants to be at his age (25). He's an awesome person, he's intelligent, has an excellent sense of humor. I just wish there was a place he could go/work that would accept his disabilities so he could flourish. I know eventually he will do very well. I have to keep reminding myself of that.

Ok, I think I've rambled on long enough. Hugs and pixie dust and Mickey Mouse to everyone.