I'm somewhere in the middle, too - I already have my own site to host all my own pictures, so it wasn't really that (plus ones from my own site have the exif data intact!) but running one's own site means that you get fairly few views and virtually no comments, so I guess I'm primarily in it for the feedback. It's interesting to see what gets views and/or comments; what I think is good in my collection is not always what other people like! But again, I'm still relatively new and get few comments. Would I get more if I trickle in just one or two pictures a day? Or does it help to have a "body of work" there to view?

I barely have time to go through my photos and that's about all I get a chance to do on the PC right now (hence so few posts on here lately), I'm not going to worry too much about it. If I get comments and views, that's great; if not, my life will go on. The pictures are the same whether they get zero comments or 50!
I probably also do more than some because I'm not spending a lot of time laboring over any one particular photo. I almost never spend more than 5 minutes on a single image, usually less than that. (The cynical ones can now yell "yeah, and it shows!") That is one advantage of not being interested in HDR - it's a lot faster to not do it!

(And, with this sensor, I have little need for it; you can get almost all the detail you would want in one single image and it looks more realistic than a tone-mapped one.)
Oh, and yes, I'm not that patient either - when I have a picture done, I want to stick it online right away! Maybe when I'm old and gray (or at least, don't have two small kids), I'll go back and work on specific images to try to bring out their best and re-upload them, who knows... maybe some day!