I love hot cocoa anyway you make it! I probably prefer it without the marshmallows though. I do like whipped cream, but rarely put it on there. I like the Swiss Miss brand and the Cold Stone Creamery kind. Or Starbucks, though it's expensive from there. Yum!!
i'll bring dessert. 
I do help quite a bit, but I still don't do it all myself. We are having turkey and ham this year (her work is giving her the turkey and we just like ham....) so I will get lots of left overs to bring home for sure. 
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