Oh my goodness, yes yes yes!!! I have this fear and I know all about emetophobia. It is such a common fear too, but most people don't speak about it openly because others usually do what you mentioned...they think it is a silly fear and don't realize that while most people do not like to throwup, having a phobia of it is entirely different than simply disliking it the way I dislike getting something like, say, a cold.
I worry when going to theme parks too. But not about people getting sick on rides so much, more about catching something that would make me throwup, like a stomach virus since so many people are in the park each day. Though I am also afraid to see or hear someone vomiting, I am definitely 100 times more fearful of vomiting myself. My 3 year old son started school 3 days a week this year and has already been sick twice, once with a cold and another time with pink-eye, which his 7-month-old brother caught from him even though I kept them away from each other. My worst fear right now is my son getting one of those awful stomach bugs, and having to take care of him. How do you deal with that? I would be so scared of catching it myself, and it would consume me for weeks probably. I get like that when my sister or one of my nieces gets sick for example. And they don't even live with me! The thought of one of those nasty viruses spreading around my own house scares me so.
The other thing I worry about is the rides and getting sick on some of them. I don't know why this is even an issue for me, because even though I feared vomiting as a kid, I used to love rides and mild roller coasters (not spinning rides though), and I have never gotten motion sickness in my life (even on cruises in bad weather like a tropical depression). I guess it has been so long since I regularly went on rides that it is almost like the unknown to me. I am hoping to get the courage to at least take my son on the Big Thunder Mountain Railroad. He should be tall enough before we go in July, and that seems like a good starting point for me. I took him on a kiddie roller coaster at Dutch Wonderland in PA this summer. He loved it, but I was dreading it since it had been so long since I went on rides. But I did not show him my nervousness, and I actually enjoyed the ride with him.
So how do people deal with this fear when they have small kids who get sick? I am afraid I will not be able to care for my own kids and I feel terrible about it. I can deal with anything else but vomiting (bloody cuts and scrapes, nasty runny noses, dirtiest diapers, etc.). Plus I don't want my children to end up having this awful phobia like I do. So how do I hide it from them? I go crazy whenever there is a stomach virus going around.
Thanks for reading everyone, and sorry this is so long! This really is a great thread though, so many people have this fear and are afraid to go to crowded places like theme parks because of it.
Take care,
Bonnie