Embarrassed/nervous to rent a scooter

[Tara619]

DH and I are taking our son in June. He'll be almost 4. I developed an autoimmune disease, diffuse scleroderma or systemic sclerosis, when I was pregnant. Among other things, it has affected my joints, much like arthritis. You wouldn't know I was sick by looking at me or seeing me walk. I'm only 27 and look young for my age. I am 95% sure I'm going to have a really rough time with all the walking WDW requires. I can usually walk around a store for about an hour. Outside walking with uneven terrain is usually a 20 minute limit.

So the scooters have been recommended to me on another post, but I have to admit, I'm a little apprehensive. We'll be taking the Disney shuttles from place to place and I think the scooter will just be a hinderance when getting on/off the shuttle. Plus, I'll be honest, I am nervous of people's reactions. They'll look at me and see that I look healthy and can walk seemingly normal, then they'll see the scooter and give me those looks (what's wrong with her?, she looks fine, she's just being lazy, etc).

We were planning on taking my son's umbrella stroller b/c I'm sure he'll get tired of walking at some point too. It might help me to lean on it when I walk, but I don't know that it would eliminate the need for the scooter. Plus that's one more thing to haul on and off the shuttles and I'm sure Disney wouldn't be happy if DS sat on my lap on the scooter instead of using the stroller.

Would it be an option to get the scooter when we get to the park and leave it when we leave the park so we don't have to mess with the bus? Is there a cheaper way to do this?

As you can tell, this is really difficult for me and I guess I need some advice on how to handle the situation. Do I see how our first day goes and then reserve the scooter if I need to? Do I grin and bear it?

Sorry this is so long. Thanks for any help.

 

[LauraVV]

Hi there! You cannot depend on there being a scooter available at the park every day, especially when it's busy. It's also less expensive to rent one off site than it is to use the big, clunky ones at the park.

It stinks to need a scooter. I admitted to myself that I need a scooter at age 43. Stinks. The decision was probably long overdue. It's awful to need one but when you need one you need one.

 

[PrincessSuzanne]

Tara619, don't worry about what other people say. You are at Disney World to have fun with your family and enjoy yourself and if you are in pain you won't be able to do that and you need to with a 4 year old.

I am almost 36 and have used an ECV for almost all of our trips, because I am not able to walk that terrain all day and it give me freedom over a wheelchair. I can go do something else whild Dh rides a ride I don't like and so forth. I can shop while he does something else. I love having my freedom while at WDW. I don't care what others think, they can't see what is going on inside my body, but I can sure feel it and it is no fun.

It really isn't much trouble to get the ECV on the bus and if I am having a bad day, Dh will do it for me. We have one advantage, we don't have children, but since you have Dh to help with your son, go for it. Also, just do it for your son, so that you can enjoy him at the World

It is alot less expensive to rent from off site and alot less hassle. They will deliver it to the resort prior to your arrival and come back and pick it up. You also might need it at the resort. I didn't see where you said where you would be staying and some of the resorts can have a long walk from the bus to the room and some resorts are uphill from the bus station.

BTW, I used to work for a Rheumatologist, so I am familiar with your condition. Don't put unnecessary stress on yourself or your body.

Check out the disabilities sticky at the top of the page for info on where to rent from. I prefer Walker or Randy's. You can check prices on their website prior to booking. The prices at the park are $45/day with I forgot the amount of deposit.

Suzanne

 

[Cheshire Figment]

Please ask the following questions. Here are the suggested answers to go with them.

1. Are you disabled (even temporarily)? Yes.

2. Do the people you are traveling with, such as your family, know you are disabled? Yes.

3. Do you expect to meet anyone you know during this trip who may not know you are disabled. Probably No!

4. Do you expect to meet a bunch of people who you will probably never meet again in your life? Probably yes!

5. Is there any reason at all that you should care what these people think about you? Absolutely No!!

6. Will using a wheelchair or ECV make for a better vacation for you and your family? Absolutely YES!

 

[KPeveler]

I am 24, used a wheelchair in disney since 22, and most people would put me in hte category of "little and cute." I rarely hear comments, and i ignore them when i do. I will answer the questions of children, but i do not answer medical questions from adults (what business of it is theirs??)

I use a cane in daily life, and I am being fitted for a wheelchair on Monday... and it is hard to deal with. I understand where you are coming from.

But remember, there is a difference between SURVIVING disney and ENJOYING disney. You want to enjoy your trip, not just 'not die.'

Get what you need, have fun, and pooh on the rest of hte world!

 

[scooby9932]

First off -

Next: Please don't let worries about others' perceptions be a deterrent to getting & using a scooter for your Disney trip!

I have several "hidden" disabilities (Lupus, Fibromyalgia, Myasthenia Gravis) that would keep me from enjoying WDW if I didn't use the scooter. I've also been battling cancer for the last 3 years. I am only 39 & have been dealing with mobility issues, etc. for 8 years, so I understand how hard it can be to adjust to a life altering diagnosis at a young age.

I believe the hardest thing about having a disabling illness/injury is coming to accept your limitations, learning to accept the use of assistive devices, and help from others. When you go from being a strong, vibrant person to needing help, it can sometimes take awhile before you become comfortable in your new life. But don't be discouraged! You will learn to live with your limitations, even excel in life despite them. You're still a vibrant, strong, wonderful person - you just have to live life a little differently than you used to.

There's a great website for those with invisible disabilities that provides support, humor, and a great article explaining how we need to conserve our energy: The Spoon Theory

If I didn't use an ECV, I wouldn't be able to do much at all. I wear out really easily & once I do, it takes days (sometimes weeks) to get back to my "normal". You don't want to do that! Disney is meant to be enjoyed.

Get a scooter & conserve your energy so you can do all the wonderful things with your DS & DH that will create memories for a lifetime! Disney World is really one of the best places for accommodating people with special needs.

Now to address your other concerns:
Do some people stare? Yes. Do some people make rude comments? Sure. But they're in the minority & plus, who cares what other people think? You're there to enjoy your family!

The buses can be a bit of a pain to use with an ECV, but the benefits to having one with you at all times far outweigh any headaches. I find it's of greatest benefit to order one from an offsite company. They deliver to your hotel & pickup. They're also quite a bit cheaper than Disney's rental prices, plus as others have said, you could end up not getting a scooter if they're gone by the time you get to the parks.

You didn't mention where you were staying. You might want to consider a monorail resort if it's in your budget. This year with the B4/G3 deal, I was able to upgrade to the Poly - so I can use the monorail & ferry for MK/Epcot. I think it will be a great improvement in saving time!

Otherwise, the buses aren't too bad. I would recommend trying to board at non-peak times. This has kept me from having the long waits for available spaces. Also, if you practice a bit with your scooter before trying to board, it will help with your confidence level. Try backing up, turning into a small space, etc. Most of the buses are the pull-in type with a ramp, but a few still have the lifts that you need to back onto. With a bit of practice, you'll become a "pro" in no time.

I use Walker Mobility & they have been super! I've heard other say great things about Randy's & Scooterama, as well.

If you have any questions or just need to talk, feel free to PM me.

Good luck in your trip planning! And be sure to treat yourself well.

 

[Tara619]

Thanks so much everyone for all the advice. You're all correct. I just need to learn not to worry about others. Adjusting to this disease has just been really tough on me and I'm having a hard time giving up my independence, no matter how big or small. This is just another one of those things I need to accept.

Scooby, thanks so much for the kind words. Your post made me cry. I actually knew of the spoon theory and it's a joke w/ my family and friends if I have enough "spoons" to do something. DH gets mad at me for vacuuming instead of resting b/c it uses too many spoons . I wish you the best with your illnesses. You seem like a really strong person.

Thanks again, I don't think my words show how much I appreciate you taking the time to answer my questions and encourage me.

 

[pixierella]

The thing that made me get the wheelchair when I needed it my last trip was how horribly tired I was the trip before. My husband wasn't able to enjoy it since I didn't. But with the wheelchair I had the best time and so did my DH. Just imagine being able to enjoy it for your son's enjoyment. The more his momma has a good time without being in pain and being wiped out so will he. Have a really great trip!

 

[mechurchlady]

EVeryone said what I feel. There is a time when you have to get an ECV so that you can have fun. I had a great time at DLR because I walk with my head down and plow forward. I could not have seen things and done things with out the wheelchair to get me in the gates and the ECV to get around. I will keep fighting to keep mobile but there comes a time when I have to think of the overall picture.

I send you lots of dole whips and hugs and chocolates.
Laurie

 

[scooby9932]

Thanks so much everyone for all the advice. You're all correct. I just need to learn not to worry about others. Adjusting to this disease has just been really tough on me and I'm having a hard time giving up my independence, no matter how big or small. This is just another one of those things I need to accept.

Scooby, thanks so much for the kind words. Your post made me cry. I actually knew of the spoon theory and it's a joke w/ my family and friends if I have enough "spoons" to do something. DH gets mad at me for vacuuming instead of resting b/c it uses too many spoons . I wish you the best with your illnesses. You seem like a really strong person.

Thanks again, I don't think my words show how much I appreciate you taking the time to answer my questions and encourage me.

You're very welcome! That's what is so great about these boards, having others who understand us- & not just our love for all things Disney!

Isn't The Spoon Theory great? My family uses the "do you have enough spoons" question, too. : That article has helped many of my friends understand why I do or don't some stuff.

Thanks for the well wishes & the compliment. I wish you the best as well & just know that you're strong, too! I always say, "Being strong doesn't mean not depending on others...it's knowing when to do it yourself & when to ask for help."

 

[Haley Whippet]

Let me add, "You are right on" Scooby!
I am also a "hidden disability" person with Fibromyalgia, CFS etc. & could never do WDW without my trusty ECV. I own my own but have also rented from scootarama with excellent results..
Deb

First off -

Next: Please don't let worries about others' perceptions be a deterrent to getting & using a scooter for your Disney trip!

I have several "hidden" disabilities (Lupus, Fibromyalgia, Myasthenia Gravis) that would keep me from enjoying WDW if I didn't use the scooter. I've also been battling cancer for the last 3 years. I am only 39 & have been dealing with mobility issues, etc. for 8 years, so I understand how hard it can be to adjust to a life altering diagnosis at a young age.

I believe the hardest thing about having a disabling illness/injury is coming to accept your limitations, learning to accept the use of assistive devices, and help from others. When you go from being a strong, vibrant person to needing help, it can sometimes take awhile before you become comfortable in your new life. But don't be discouraged! You will learn to live with your limitations, even excel in life despite them. You're still a vibrant, strong, wonderful person - you just have to live life a little differently than you used to.

There's a great website for those with invisible disabilities that provides support, humor, and a great article explaining how we need to conserve our energy: The Spoon Theory

If I didn't use an ECV, I wouldn't be able to do much at all. I wear out really easily & once I do, it takes days (sometimes weeks) to get back to my "normal". You don't want to do that! Disney is meant to be enjoyed.

Get a scooter & conserve your energy so you can do all the wonderful things with your DS & DH that will create memories for a lifetime! Disney World is really one of the best places for accommodating people with special needs.

Now to address your other concerns:
Do some people stare? Yes. Do some people make rude comments? Sure. But they're in the minority & plus, who cares what other people think? You're there to enjoy your family!

The buses can be a bit of a pain to use with an ECV, but the benefits to having one with you at all times far outweigh any headaches. I find it's of greatest benefit to order one from an offsite company. They deliver to your hotel & pickup. They're also quite a bit cheaper than Disney's rental prices, plus as others have said, you could end up not getting a scooter if they're gone by the time you get to the parks.

You didn't mention where you were staying. You might want to consider a monorail resort if it's in your budget. This year with the B4/G3 deal, I was able to upgrade to the Poly - so I can use the monorail & ferry for MK/Epcot. I think it will be a great improvement in saving time!

Otherwise, the buses aren't too bad. I would recommend trying to board at non-peak times. This has kept me from having the long waits for available spaces. Also, if you practice a bit with your scooter before trying to board, it will help with your confidence level. Try backing up, turning into a small space, etc. Most of the buses are the pull-in type with a ramp, but a few still have the lifts that you need to back onto. With a bit of practice, you'll become a "pro" in no time.

I use Walker Mobility & they have been super! I've heard other say great things about Randy's & Scooterama, as well.

If you have any questions or just need to talk, feel free to PM me.

Good luck in your trip planning! And be sure to treat yourself well.

 

[Brightsy]

A few years back I had major foot/leg surgery. When I was finally cleared to start walking again it was after 4 months of bedrest. I was still in a lot of discomfort and couldn't walk for long. I had to use the scooter for a couple months to WDW. I, too, was worried at first about looks and such. But, really, I would not have been able to enjoy myself w.out the scooter. My kids and DH wouldn't have had as much fun w/out the scooter around to help me either. You know why you need it and to heck w/ the rest!

 

[MarriedToAPrince]

I know how you feel. It is a concern that I currently have. My condition that limits me is a fracture in my spine. I was in a car accident on Halloween 2007 with my 5 weeks old DD and I ended up suffering a Compression Fracture at T5. Because we didn't know about it till 3 months later it has healed but is "off" and pinching nerves and discs and I have pain 24/7. There seriously isn't a moment in my life without pain. Anything I do makes it worse, especially walking so I fear I might need to use a scooter at some point during the day down there and I am so worried about the looks I will receive because to the outside world I look fine. I do think part of the problem is accepting what is causing the limitations but I still struggle with that. I want my old life back where I could do anything!

 

[disneymarie]

DH and I are taking our son in June. He'll be almost 4. I developed an autoimmune disease, diffuse scleroderma or systemic sclerosis, when I was pregnant. Among other things, it has affected my joints, much like arthritis. You wouldn't know I was sick by looking at me or seeing me walk. I'm only 27 and look young for my age. I am 95% sure I'm going to have a really rough time with all the walking WDW requires. I can usually walk around a store for about an hour. Outside walking with uneven terrain is usually a 20 minute limit.

So the scooters have been recommended to me on another post, but I have to admit, I'm a little apprehensive. We'll be taking the Disney shuttles from place to place and I think the scooter will just be a hinderance when getting on/off the shuttle. Plus, I'll be honest, I am nervous of people's reactions. They'll look at me and see that I look healthy and can walk seemingly normal, then they'll see the scooter and give me those looks (what's wrong with her?, she looks fine, she's just being lazy, etc).

We were planning on taking my son's umbrella stroller b/c I'm sure he'll get tired of walking at some point too. It might help me to lean on it when I walk, but I don't know that it would eliminate the need for the scooter. Plus that's one more thing to haul on and off the shuttles and I'm sure Disney wouldn't be happy if DS sat on my lap on the scooter instead of using the stroller.

Would it be an option to get the scooter when we get to the park and leave it when we leave the park so we don't have to mess with the bus? Is there a cheaper way to do this?

As you can tell, this is really difficult for me and I guess I need some advice on how to handle the situation. Do I see how our first day goes and then reserve the scooter if I need to? Do I grin and bear it?

Sorry this is so long. Thanks for any help.

You sound much as I did my first scooter trip, and the last one when I insited to the son to use one. BUT, it makes for a better experiance for you, your family and that is what counts. Please do not worry about what people say or think. They are not in your body, you are paying a lot to have a wonderful time and want to get the most from your trip.

Earlier in the day and when attractions are close, I sometimes take the key and will go to one or two other attractions. But then if I am standing even incidentally for 5 minutes, my low back is pained and the right leg spasms. So why do I even do that

I have taken a rollator, with my soft cooler with water and gatoraid, snacks in it. But, by the end of the day I can hardly walk out of the park. I don;t have the indurance. Hidden disabilities too.

The buses scared the bugeezes out of me at first, but the last trip most of the buses had a ramp I could just drive up on and not have to back up. After the first frew tries when backing up and holding things up, I finally realized if I just took my time, slow down, a breath and then even if it is a few back ups, I am finally in and tied down.

But, it is so a must. I rent off site for the week. It is dropped off at the hotel and picked up.
Oh, I don't know if it was suggested, but although the carts at Walmart are a lot longer, go get the hang of riding along and feel the wheels. It builds the confidance. I wish I ahd thought of that before I went with one the first time.
You will be so glad you have wheels
di

 

[ireland_nicole]

I like to think of myself as still youngish (36). I also started having auto immune problems while pregnant, so I definitely understand some of what you're feelin'. My kids first two visits to WDW I struggled along, literally limping, leaning more and more on the stroller, whiching I was just back in the hotel, and spent literally a week in bed in excruciating pain. Last trip we used an ECV. Did I sometimes feel like I looked stupid? Yep. Did people ever look at me funny? Yes, but it might have had something to do with the fact that I Minnie'd my ECV wnd wore matching ears. Did I enjoy the trip more than any with my kids because I wasn't in agony most of the time? Oh, yeah. Definitely. We don't live everyday like "normal" 20 something moms. So it makes sense that we'll do Disney a little different too. Sometimes it will be a little annoying, but it will definitely be worth it.

 

[churchpilot]

I noticed a lot of scooters during our recent trip to Disney--however, I can't tell you a single thing about any of the people using them except one. There was a lady letting her 4-5 year old son drive her scooter while she walked along side!!! I never questioned why such a young person had a scooter---I did question her judgment though. You obviously will have a better, more enjoyable trip, so scoot on!!! If someone says something, chalk it up to ignorance and keep going. Disney is supposed to be a magical place, so do what you need to do and have a magical vacation.

 

[Waltworshiper]

Don't worry about what other people think. Trust me, if you are exhausted, you will have a miserable time. I broke a vertebrae in my lower back about 4 years ago, and after walking for an hour, I really start to feel the pain. Last time we were in DW we rented a scooter at all the parks. I knew for my family to enjoy our vacation, that it was my only option. I never regret it for a moment. I was able to go all day with my kids, and still ride everything I wanted. I try not to let the injury get in my way, but I have learned Imy limits. I know how you feel about people looking at you and wondering why you are in a scooter, I felt the same way before I did it. Amazingly, no one looked and no one cared. There are rental companies that you can get scooters from, but I found it easier to just rent the ones at the park, as I didn't need one unless we were walking for hours. They are right at the main gates, and after riding all day, I was able to make it to the parking lot or transportation with no problems. Enjoy your trip!

 

[MarriedToAPrince]

Don't worry about what other people think. Trust me, if you are exhausted, you will have a miserable time. I broke a vertebrae in my lower back about 4 years ago, and after walking for an hour, I really start to feel the pain. Last time we were in DW we rented a scooter at all the parks. I knew for my family to enjoy our vacation, that it was my only option. I never regret it for a moment. I was able to go all day with my kids, and still ride everything I wanted. I try not to let the injury get in my way, but I have learned Imy limits. I know how you feel about people looking at you and wondering why you are in a scooter, I felt the same way before I did it. Amazingly, no one looked and no one cared. There are rental companies that you can get scooters from, but I found it easier to just rent the ones at the park, as I didn't need one unless we were walking for hours. They are right at the main gates, and after riding all day, I was able to make it to the parking lot or transportation with no problems. Enjoy your trip!

You should a lot like me. My fracture was at T5 so my upper back. Thanks so much for posting this. I guess if I need to rent one I need to. That is what they are for.

 

[idchafee]

We've gone with my mom several times. She had polio when she was six, she hasn't taken a step since 1951. And you know what? She still gets nasty looks when she gets on a bus ahead of everyone, she still gets the evil eye when she gets a special car on a ride. In mind its like this: if you can't handle the walking to the point that you're willing to drop a decent chunk of cash (IIRC the rental at the park is $65 for a scooter) to make it better, then bully for you. Its hard to have a good time at the parks when you're too beat to walk.

 

[KatPrincess]

Wow, I feel much better after reading these posts. My husband was the one pushing for a wheelchair for me and I kept pushing it out of my mind. I could never walk Disney and stand for so long so its a blessing to have a seat and be able to watch my daughter enjoy herself.