Oh my goodness! I assure you, all Americans aren't rude! I have seen a total of ONE post recommending this place and I am sorely afraid that we won't frequent it! We are from Central North Carolina with ties to the Outer Banks....when we want seafood, we go down, enjoy the beach and eat a wonderful, albeit, over priced seafood dinner! I am SO SORRY for what happened to you...obviously, they need to do some revisions on their wait staff! NO ONE should be chased down not once, but TWICE and asked for another tip! Maybe this person should think about another career! I can tell you that my DH and I visited a very reputable restaurant down east and we were MISERABLE with our wait person! Talk about RUDE! We left her a PENNY so that the message would be clear! In my opinion, if you choose food service as your job/career, be ready to step up---tips, and I do believe in tipping well (as I've been there in my younger years) should be earned, NOT obligatory!