To answer your question, Rugman, yes we still love our DVC membership, and we use it about as much as you do.
As for your ancilliary points, Charles already mentioned the inflation, so I waon't dwell on that. However, it is important to note that gasoline, milk, and other products have also had a significant increase in price over the past 10 years, while salaries have also increased (as a whole).
I wish you had provided more information regarding your membership, as we don't truely know how many points you own at each resort. Thus, I am unable to completely sympathize with your plight due to a lack of scope.
Ancilliary costs at WDW (food, parks, shopping, etc) are not included, and I will give you the benefit of the doubt that you fully conceptualized the impact of this at the time you purchased. Food costs for DVC members should be lower (overall) compared to WDW Hotel guests, since we have facilities that enable us to buy and store groceries and eat many meals in the room.
Almost all of the smaller perks available to DVC members are provided by outside vendors (even the vallet parking). Perks are offered to DVC members as a way to entice spending behavior, instead of as thank you gifts. As such, perks will come and go based on member activity on our stay and the desires by Disney to enhance revenue in a specific area. The annual passes are likely designed to entice more frequent visits by membesr to WDW sooner than later (since annual trips are planned closer together to take advantage of the passes before expiration). Thus, it is unfair to expect Disney to be altruistic, when they are clearly channeling incentives towards revenue generation.
That said, it sounds like you are depresed about the current cost of your membership compared to the costs paid by an average WDW visitor. If you truely want to rediscover the value of DVC, I would suggest going back and taking a look at the long-term costs of a WDW vacation stay vs. your membership. You can figure out the average increase in annual dues, as well as the average increase in WDW Hotel rates, food prices, and ticket prices. Compare them over the next (whatever) years to get the true picture of your membership, since DVC is not a short-term program. (Please keep in mind that the economy moves in cycles, and it is likely we will emerge from this downturn in the next couple years and begin a recovery, which will peak in the next 20 years, then shift slowly downward).
Many of your concerns about quality of service, rooms, food, perks, and prices have been (and will likely be) addressed in seperate threads, which focus on each of these topics exclusively. I would like to suggest reading those threads and providing your experiences and solutions individually instead of in a lump thread. The topics are too diverse and specific to paint with a general brush.
- Chris