I guess maybe they’d rather have buyers coming in off
YouTube links than people looking for an unusually good deal…but it really doesn’t hurt to exercise common courtesy and be polite. It takes like 20 seconds to copy and paste an email that says “Thank you for your offer, the seller is currently holding out for a much higher price/has received other higher offers. Let me know if there are any other listings I can help you with.”
I made an aggressive offer yesterday through a broker I don’t think can be named here. He wrote me today to say basically “Thank you for your offer. I am so sorry but the seller thinks you are so far apart he’s not interesting in negotiating. Let me know if you’d like to send a higher offer or if there is anything else I can help you with.”
That is the kind of broker I’d be more likely to work with in the future on both buyer and seller side.
FWIW, I’ve decided to adopt the attitude that I enjoy submitting offers 5-10% below the best price I’ve seen here lately whether or not I hear anything back— ideally I’m at least softening up a seller to help out one of my ROFR compatriots that’s willing to offer at or near median prices. Plus it has to be at least a little demoralizing for the brokers sitting on contracts they are trying to sell $30-40/pt above Fidelity median for the prior month.