Thanks everyone. I think I will go to a camera store (like Ritz camera) and look at the different ones. Just to get a feel. I loved seeing the canon eos on qvc the other day with how many shots you can take (I have a kodak and you have to wait between each shot) and that sucker cost me $400 when it first came out!
The T2 or T3 would probably suit your needs. A Canon Rebel is just a series name- the T2i, T3i and T3 are all Canon Rebels.
This is a comparison between the T3 & T3i:
http://snapsort.com/compare/Canon-T3-vs-Canon-T3i
T2i vs T3i:
http://snapsort.com/compare/Canon-T3i-vs-Canon_EOS_Rebel_T2i
T2i vs T3:
http://snapsort.com/compare/Canon-T3-vs-Canon_EOS_Rebel_T2i
Looks like the T2i would fit your needs. Go to the store and handle them, but DO NOT buy at Ritz Camera or
Best Buy or the like. When you decide what you want, compare prices online. Check out
amazon.com, adorama.com, bhphotovideo.com and a few others like
Walmart, etc.
Yes, lenses are costly but it depends on what you're getting the camera for. I know plenty of people who have bought dSLRs and have a few inexpensive lenses (the kit, the 50mm f/1.8 and maybe a cheap telephoto) or just use the kit lens it came with.
You can spend gobs of money on lenses if you get into photography and really learn what it's all about. You can also just buy a dSLR with the kit lens and snap some great photos in auto. Your output will be different but it's all in what your end goal is.
Buy the camera with the kit and try it out before deciding what other lenses you want. I'm still using the Rebel I bought in 2008 for about $600 including the kit lens. Since then I've spent about $5,000 on lenses and filters alone (not including photography classes, photobooks, seminars, etc). It's easy to get sucked in, but it's an expensive hobby!