I'm the same way. My mom is a huge fan of designer bags and she's bought me several over the years. I've gave them away until we got our daughter. She even got my husband to buy me LV luggage a few years ago. That went to my daughter too. Happy to say that 15yo DD not into designer anymore either.
I ordered the large tote for myself. Just now i spoke to the concierge who is buying 4 wristlets that I'm giving to my daughter and her 3 friends on our trip. Rie, I think, will make an exception for a designer Disney bag. Her friends will flip because they were drooling over the tote I ordered.