Don't do me any favors!

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delswife

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Don’t do me any favors.

As a lot of you know Nikki and I have been sick. Last week I started feeling better, but Nikki didn’t.

We had gone to the doctor on Friday May 28. We were told we had a virus and there wasn’t much he could do, just Tylenol and bed rest. So we did that.

I got better, Nikki started getting worse. She had a terrible headache, body aches and a sore throat. Nikki, being the little commando that she is kept thinking that any day she would start to feel better too. She hadn’t said very much about feeling lousy.

Remember Nikki is 18 yrs. old. She is a very busy girl involved in many different activities. She is a senior getting ready to graduate and a manager at her job. There are some days I only see her for a few minutes.

On Saturday June 5th she woke up with a temperature of 103. She was in a lot of pain, was having trouble talking because her throat was so swollen and called me at work. I told her to call the clinic and see if she could get in and that I would drop her off a blank check as so as I got to that side of town.

Every place she called was closed. She was told by one office to go to the emergency room.

So she did.

When she got to Southern Maine Medical Center she told them she didn’t have health insurance. They saw her, but they didn’t treat her.

I am angry, I have to keep erasing what I write and start over. Forgive me if I stop making sense.

The doctor told her that because she didn’t have insurance, he didn’t want to run up a big bill.

He didn’t want to run up a big bill.

He looked in her throat and ears, tapped on her face to check her sinus’ and told her the thought she had strep throat. His diagnosis was pharyngitis. No throat culture was taken. No blood tests were done. Nothing was given for the 103 fever.

He didn’t want to run up a big bill.

He gave her Amoxicillin 1500 mg to be taken on Saturday and 750 mg to be taken for 8 following days. Tylenol as needed.

The following morning she woke up again with a 103 temp. She tried to go to work, took her meds as instructed but couldn’t shake the fever or the pain. Her throat swelled so much it began to close. She came home and went to bed and tried to sleep the rest of the afternoon. Sunday evening she came out of her room and she was crying because she felt so bad.

I didn’t even know she was home. She scared me half to death.

I put my hands on her to hug her and could feel the heat coming off her. She had to hold her head back to breathe and talk. The swelling in her throat had become much worse causing her neck to be disfigured and her tongue was swollen. She was talking like Elmer Fudd.

Luckily there wouldn’t be a big hospital bill.

I thought we could just call the ER and find out what her test results were and be advised what to do next. That’s when she told me there were no tests taken because the doctor told her he didn’t want to run up the bill.

She thought he was doing her a favor.

Don’t do me any favors, treat my daughter for illness, and let me worry about payments.

I took her to York Hospital. There was no way I would be taking her back to SMMC.

FYI, Chevy Blazer steering wheels can handle a great deal of force. I am surprised it didn’t snap off in my hands on the drive to York.

As I drove to York, I called my family to tell them what had happened and about the major concern about the bill.

I don’t have insurance that is true. What SMMC didn’t realize was that I have a wealthy family. Before I got off the Maine State turnpike I had 3 MasterCard numbers and 2 Visa card numbers, no limits on any of them.

NOW could someone do some tests on my daughter?!?

I was trying to remain calm when we walked into York Hospital but Nikki could no longer talk at all because of all the swelling in her mouth. She knows the alphabet in sign language. That is how we were communicating.

I taught all my kids the sign language alphabet when they were little. I recommend this to all parents now. ESPECIALLY IF YOU DON’T HAVE HEALTH INSURANCE!

I was trying to explain to the lady that was checking her in that I had money, lots of it, but no insurance. Please treat my daughter. She kind of rolled her eyes and waved her hand at me. After she finished admitting Nikki she explained to me that there is some new law in our state saying if someone comes into an ER and doesn’t have insurance the hospital has to foot the bill. They were having a lot of problems with other hospitals not treating people to cut cost.

I don’t know how to find out about this law. I really want to know more about it.

I did learn a brand new word that day, Unethical. Isn’t that a fun word? Kind of rolls right off the tongue.

Well, not Nikki’s tongue, it was too swollen.

The immediately hooked her up to an IV because she was dehydrated and took a lot of her blood. They gave her prednisone to reduce the swelling so she could breathe easier and Motrin to reduce her 103 fever.

Interesting thing about the entire experience was that they wouldn’t take the credit cards from me. They told me they were more interested in treating her then worrying about payments.

The test results came back positive for Mono. The fantastic doctor that we had was very concerned about her badly swollen liver. Nikki’s spleen was also swollen but she was very worried about the liver. Her liver would have been swollen the day before when she was in SMMC. Nikki couldn’t do anything physical because of fear that she would damage her SWOLLEN LIVER.

But there isn’t going to be a big bill from SMMC, nope.

Nikki was immediately taken off the Amoxicillin and told to avoid the Tylenol. Tylenol is bad for the liver. She must see her doctor again this week to have it looked at again. Since we went to York Hospital Nikki is feeling a little bit better. She sleeps a lot but she is able to breathe and talk again.

She still sounds a little like Elmer Fudd. After watching her get so ill, it is a beautiful sound.
 
On behalf of hopital admins everywhere, I am so sorry you went through that! I am so glak Nikki is being treated, and you and your family will remain in my prayers.

Tessa
 
What an awful story. Hate to second guess, but I wanted to let you know that about half way through, I thought, hmmm, that sounds like mono, bet she needs some prednisone for that throat. FYI, amoxicillin is bad for mono too.

Rachel
 
I can't say what I want. :mad: Just know I am glad your daughter is feeling better.
 

What a horrible story! I wonder what "political genius" passed THAT law?!
 
Oh that is a terrible feeling when your child is sick and no one will help you!

I hope she is feeling better soon!
 
Sounds like a good story for the local newspaper. Unbelievable! I'm glad she finally got the medical attention that she needs and hope she mends as quickly as possible.
 
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OMG Robin , poor Nikki.. that is terrible what she and you had to go through.. Isn't illegal for an ER to deny to treat her??
PD and prayers for you and Nikki...please let us know how she is doing.

Susan
 
HUGS for you both. I hope Nikki is back to blowing her whistle really soon :)
 
Wow Robin, so sorry that happened. Tell Nikki if I could I'd take her to Disney right now I would but my jet plane is having mechanical issues. :teeth: Hope she'd doing better, tell her I said hi. :)
 
UNBELIEVABLE!!!:mad:

So glad that Nikki finally has the help she needs. Shame on the other place, that is just shamefull!!!:mad: :mad:
 
OMG Robin, that is horrible!! I am sooo sorry you all went through this. Poor Nikki. Thank God you took charge of the situation and got her treated. I can't even believe that these medical professionals are so concerned with the bottom line that they would let someone who is so obviously sick walk out of the hospital without a definitive diagnosis.

My prayers are with both of you -- I am sure Nikki will soon be feeling much better.
 
Originally posted by Lisa F
Sounds like a good story for the local newspaper. Unbelievable! I'm glad she finally got the medical attention that she needs and hope she mends as quickly as possible.
I have to agree, Robin. I think you should send it in just as it is!
 
I am so glad you found out what was wrong with Nikki. I had mono when I was her age, and it was miserable. Especially for one to active. I battled it for months because it was not diagnosed quickly enough.

I can't believe some that other hospital. Patient care should be more important than insurance, IMHO!
 
that was awful!!! but i'm so very glad that she was treated and is beginning to feel better...

your family's in my thoughts and prayers...
 
OMG - I can't believe this is happening to you. Prayers and Pixie dust for "Commando" Nikki. I hope she gets feeling better soon.
 
How horrible for her. Poor thing. Unfourtunatley, I learned a long time ago to avoid SMMC at all costs. I grew up in Saco and after a bad visit (they missed that I had appendicitis and sent me home) we always went fot MMC or Mercy. You have every right to be angry. No insurance does not mean poor or unable to pay. That is ignorant!
 
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That is just horrible!! I am glad she is doing better!
 
At least there won't be that big bill from SMMC :rolleyes: :confused:

I hope she is feeling better real soon, I know that Mono can really throw you for a loop, and the effects can last awhile.

Now I am not a sue-happy type of person. Or a "I am going to file a complaint" type person either. BUT what that other doctor did is wrong, unethical and in my opinion boarders on malpractice!

I dealt with something similar where the doctor did not really look at my daughter to figure out why at 5 months she was screaming uncontrolably for three hours! All he did was look at her toes to see if a hair was wrapped around it!!! He did not look at her ears, throat, listen to her chest, NOTHING!! I even told him about her kidney/bladder reflux and he brushed it off. Fortunatly, there was nothing wrong when I took her into her doctor the next morning, but I still called the hospital and complained to the ER director. Since there was/is something wrong with Niki that he could have done something about, please call SMMC and lodge a complaint. Then find out what else can be done to that "nice" doctor. Again, I hope she feels better soon, what a trooper she is!
 
Robin
I hope that you take those test results and throw them in the face of every ER Doc and hopital admin at SMMC. Then tell them you'll sue them all for malpractice and anything else you can think of!!!!! Of Course this is after Nikki is better give her hugs and yourself one too. Please take care and keep us updated.
 
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