I think my eBaying may not be what you think it is. Actually this is only true under my eBay name where I sell fixed items. I sell a few auction items under my fixed item name, to draw people in and to my website. But, like many others I have three eBay names. One for my fixed price items, one for my regular stuff, and a buying name. I also have a shed/attic and cellar full of older items (antiques) as well as items from garage sales and my own junk, as well as items my grands no longer want, and a lot of my past Disney pins and items. I'm only in fear that I'll never run out. My "regular items" eBay name runs all auctions and no fixed 'repeat' items. I certainly do want and need people to bid up. I however, never start at .99 and hope. I start at what I would be happy with.
eBay is the only name of the game right now, and their fees still make it profitable for a large amount of people, compared to brick and mortor. I hang on a lot of eBay boards, and believe me, there are a lot of people making a nice business, with a good profit on eBay, and many start with items around the house. They get good at eBaying, and start looking at garage sales and other places to get stuff.
I still see some of the types of items you used to sell, (especailly now that the fee to list those items is lower (you used to have to pay for gallery..that is a big discount getting it for free now)..and some of those people are on the ebay boards, and still say it's profitable for them. Remember, you are for months living outside of the city, and by your own admission far from a city, and getting items, shipping materials, using gas to go to the post office affects your bottom line more than it may others. Obviously, if it's not profitable for you to sell household items, then you are wise to not do it. I thought at one time you liked it just for the extra spending money and the thrill of the chase..but if that is no longer the case and you aren't earning enough to make it worth it..then it was time to step away from eBay. I would too.
As for the hours and hours it was taking you..most everything I do is done automatic now. My end of auction notes are automatic. I haven't purchased any materials to ship in years..it all comes from a local store that gives me their leftovers. I take a picture, item is packed (I do have my husband for that, but we sell a lot..often 30-40 items go out a day..but that time would lesson for just a few items), I put it up on eBay..often with very little description, depending on the item. It sells, and now that we're switching to all Paypal (OK, so we were forced into it..but I'm just as glad now), I print the label and 4 out of 5 days the mailman picks up our order at my front door (we go the 5th day to the post office, to check our box, because we use it for our website).
As for the hoops for the small sellers, I'm still confused over which hoops you mean. The listing fees have been the same or gone down. Fixed price items are a bargain, for those finding like items to sell. Yes, the selling fees have gone up, but what hasn't? If I had a store, my utilities would be hitting the ceiling. I'm not affected by Paypal holding any of my payments, but if it's coming as a surprise to people, they really have to read the agreements. As a buyer, there are times I wish I had my funds being held until I got an item. I'd rather they not do that..but it's just not a biggy. Mail the item, show proof of delivery, and yoru money is yours again. Once they do more selling that should stop. Am I happy that I can't leave a neg to a non payer? No, but ever that didn't turn out to to be the big brahou (is that a word?) we all thought it would be. I guess I'm still a happy eBayer. Do I never complain about them? No, I still find things that make me write nasty letters to them..like when they counted my neutral as a neg..but enough of us wrote and they changed that. As for not buying on eBay..some people think it's a buyer's market with the new rules. I'm still buying.
I've done Craigslist for years and I have things up there as I write, and while I've done good selling bigger items, that too has problems. First, you have to either meet someone somewhere, or reveal your address. Second, the amount of no shows on Craiglist is very high. Third, many people want to pay via check, and in person, there is no holding time. Fourth, even on the craiglist board there are many people talking about being scammed. There is no perfect venue, but I wouldn't discourage someone from trying eBay or Craigslist. It may be their chance to make some extra money, and some people take to it like a duck to water.
Thanks for asking about the surgery. The Neurological surgeon thought it was not a good idea, as it would affect the disks above and below the injured ones. I have a neat machine that stops the pain, and so I am good to go! Maybe in the future, but not now..yeah!
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I think your situation is unique - because for the largest part of your eBay sales you are basically running a store - selling the same type of thing(s) over and over for a "fixed" amount - so you don't run into the problems with fees and needing items to "bid up" and such that the smaller sellers would.. (Those selling assorted items they have picked up here or there - or have hanging around the house and just want to get rid of..) For those people, eBay is no longer profitable enough to deal with the increased fees and all of the other hassles they have created for the "small" sellers.. I would strongly suggest that those people go the consignment route or Craigslist.. We have been very, very happy with Craigslist - lots of people are making that switch - both selling and buying..
For the types of things I was selling in the past, I definitely don't miss the hours and hours and hours it took to do everything needed to list, monitor, collect payments, package, and ship - not to mention purchasing shipping supplies and such.. Watching the fees go up and reading about all of the hoops they have the small seller jumping through now, I have no regrets that I chose a different route.. Heck - I don't even
buy from eBay anymore - LOL..
Glad it's working out for the big, store-type sellers - and those such as yourself who can continue to sell the same items over and over - but it's just not business friendly for the small seller anymore and I highly doubt it ever will be again..
OT: Did you have your surgery? If so, I hope it went well..