KellyHonos
DisneyDivaxo
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- Feb 27, 2018
Okay, so she's already got all this pressure on her, and you want to put a 12yo under MORE pressure by having her help pay for the trip? Seriously?
Also, if she's involved with all these activities and accelerated classes, that makes it MORE difficult for her to miss school--you get that, right? She'll get behind quickly. I happened to have 4 kids--all were in accelerated classes--and they didn't ever want to miss school, for anything, once they hit middle school. I have a tough time getting them to stay home sick!
And for the record, taking a 15yo to a college campus isn't too young--my DD14 (15 in May) already has very specific college plans. She's actually been on several college campuses for special math and music programs. We have a specific issue with her, in that she won't consider any in-state college, so we want her to actually SEE in-state campuses before she writes them off her list. She's my third kid, so I have some idea at how quickly the college thing can sneak up on you.
We can completely agree that kids need to have fun and relax. If your sister has a full schedule during the school year, she definitely deserves a break for summer and holidays--no question. But, that break doesn't have to be an expensive trip to a theme park where she's given the added burden of earning her way to go. I think that's a lot to put on a 12/13yo. I think you should be talking to her parents about ways that you and she can have some great times together, whether locally or traveling, that enrich her life and allow her to have fun.
Okay, if you read the previous posts, I'm not asking for her to pay for the trip. I was seeking other people's advice on ways for her to earn money and whether or not they asked for their kids to contribute. People can have their own opinions, I for one don't think it's out of line for a child to save their allowance and earn money to be put towards a trip. If you disagree, that's your business. Thanks for your input, have a lovely day.