I find it hard to believe that they ask for all this identifying information to protect the patient, or because they "care." Face it, they ask for your SSN so they can collect on a debt if you don't pay your portion in the long run. I understand it's a business, and I don't have a problem with it, but don't sugar coat it and act like it's for the patient's protection.
I can't speak for what goes on in doctor's offices. I have never worked in one. I do know what goes on in hospitals. It is pretty awful. I have been dressed down for getting too close with the patients whom we are supposed to treat as nothing but sources of revenue for the hospital.
I requested a day off to attend the funeral of a patient we had all known because his mother asked me to give the eulogy. She wanted it enough that she insisted upon paying for my airline ticket to reach the family. I worked another day instead for a co-worker more than willing to switch with me because this meant that she got Independence Day off. The nursing supervisor acted like I was committing some major crime by attending patients' funerals at all.
I feel like we are not allowed to treat our patients as people. One elderly patient was discharged from our hospital and later found wandering the streets with her hospital bracelet still on and returned to the hospital by the police. I can't prove that she was dumped for economic reasons, but I am suspicious.
She was important to me. I signed her out of the hospital on a day pass once. We went to a place with a Santa Claus. The patient's mental age was much younger than her physical age so we got in line to see Santa Claus and had our picture taken with him. I bought a copy for her. She took it back to the hospital and stood it on her night table. She had no family that we knew of, but she had some visitors from her church one day. I wasn't working that day, and her visitors had never met me so they asked her "Is that your daughter?" when they saw us together in that photograph. I thought the patient was making that up because her mind wasn't all there. Someone from housekeeping had witnessed though and said it really did happen that way. This helpless old lady was apparently just dumped on city streets to fend for herself. Apparently this happens pretty regularly according to a reporter I called to report my suspicions. The hospital told me that she could not come live with me while family was sought.
I now have a new license to administer anesthesia. I offered my services for free to a child in need of a transplant because the parents were so frantic as to how they were going to pay. I was informed that the family must pay for any work I did for free. He didn't live. He was eight.
I do have the right to make a living. I don't have the right to be dismissive of suffering because I want to sacrifice someone else on the altar of my greed. I can tell that the original writer here is too frustrated and distraught to say well what needs to be said, but that doesn't mean that that person is wrong. I do bill insurance companies for my work, but we need some serious reform in health care in this country. Anyone saying so gets shouted down in this country. That is what is happening to the starter of this thread who does have insurance and is paying medical bills out of pocket as well.