I plan more for DL, and my family makes fun of me for it, but when we're there, they're sure happy to have me around. My DD said I'm like a walking guidebook.
The first couple of times, I made very detailed touring plans for each day. Guess what? Oldest DD got very sick, and those plans got mostly shot all to heck while DH and I switched off hotel duty with her. When she and I went as a "do-over" a few months later, I also had detailed plans, but the mindset that it's ok to roll with it. That attitude works great for me. Have a plan, detailed if you want, but accept that you WILL go off plan at some point, and that's ok. That way, you're never standing around with the map asking, "Whaddya wanna do?" "I dunno, whadda YOU wanna do?"
Solo trip, I didn't plan much aside from a few dining reservations, and deciding which park to start in each day. This next one, I think I'm going to have a touring plan, but again, be quite ready and willing to roll with the punches. It's not as necessary for me to have it all planned out since you can no longer collect FPs and use them past their window.
When we went to the UK for 3 weeks in 2014, I planned and researched very carefully for B&B's, where we wanted to visit and for how long at each stop, and a few major activities. Beyond that, it was all exploring, and it was wonderful! We're going to Maui in August, and aside from the condo and the rental car, the only thing I'm going to reserve is a luau night. Relaxation!
