Wow, thanks for all the replies....have been busy reading.
Somebody asked, what exactly we want.
I've been to WDW once before, last April for 2 days, where I actually speeded through all 4 parks and did a LOT!
This year my mom(43yrs) is going to join me. We've been to
Disneyland Paris twice before and she has a couple of favorites...I do have a few more.
We will have a 5 Day Hopper(Tuesday to Saturday) We will probably do MK on Tuesdays and Wednesday(plus a couple of hours on other days), AK on Thursday and Epcot and MGM on Friday and Saturday....but I like to have the Hopper, so we can go for example to the Magic Kingdom after Epcot closes.
Our must Dos:
Magic Kingdom(open from 8-midnight)
*Dumbo
*Tea Cups
*Splash Mountain
*Big Thunder Mountain(we love this one)
*Small World(at least twice)
*Peter Pan
*Winnie the Pooh
*Philarmagic
*Pirates of the Caribbean
*Cinderellabration
*Wishes
Animal Kingdom
*Safari
*Kali Rapid
*Lion King Show
*It's tough to be a bug
MGM
*Beauty and the Beast
*Fantasmic
EPCOT
*Soarin
*all Country Pavillions
maybe: Journey into imagination
and Spaceship Earth....
Could combine Epcot and MGM (

)
As you can see, most of our favorites are in Magic Kingdom, and I know, that Dumbo and the Tea Cups are somewhat 'slowmoving' in regards to the lines...so we should probably do them first thing in the morning while waiting for a fastpass time slot.
Even though our must do list is quite long, we would still like to enjoy just being in Disney...meet some characters, watch people, listen to the subtle backround music....
Any other tips? Where can I find out times for parades and shows prior to arriving at Disney?
Will book my ADR asap(Breakfastosaurus and Crystal Palace Character Breakfast..)
TIA
Marina