starry_solo
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You can always file a lawsuit. Of course it would cost you money (no lawyer would take this kind of case on a contingency) but it's something you can do.
File a lawsuit for what?
If people want to damage the house they live in, they are free to do so. If they don’t own the home, and a landlord is involved, smart landlords should check their properties!I also think you should contact the homeowner/tribe. Do they know they are damaging the house and how many times the various neighbors have called the police?
People are much more likely to take you seriously if your complaints do not sound as if they might have a racial bias wrapped up in them.
ok Disney junkie would you want to be woken at 4am with loud noises cars in and out-broken window so many people living in the house you don't know whos supposed be living there--possible drug deals
how would you feel if you couldn't have your grandkids overnight because of this house--
using the front lawn as a bathroom--their driveway is right next to our house--just wondering if they ever used our house for aiming while going
and why do we have to put up with this
as far as moving I explained earlier that what we would sell our house for ( and we haven't had a house payment in 5 years) wed have to take at least 50 to 85 thousand loan to buy where we went--house prices in the suburbs are way out of hand--and people are paying more then asking just to get the house
and whos going to give us a loan for that amount at our age were both 62 on social security and DH gets a pension plus we both work very limited part time
so this is why were so totally stuck
ok maybe mentioning the tribe wasn't the smartest thing but you get so frustrated that things just keep coming out
all I want is to be able to feel safe in my own home--have my grandkids over especially overnight --which has all been taken away from me by these "people"
oh well nothing much we can do--the police did tell us to call when we see things over there so that's why we call--but then talk is cheap
ok Disney junkie would you want to be woken at 4am with loud noises cars in and out-broken window so many people living in the house you don't know whos supposed be living there--possible drug deals
how would you feel if you couldn't have your grandkids overnight because of this house--
using the front lawn as a bathroom--their driveway is right next to our house--just wondering if they ever used our house for aiming while going
and why do we have to put up with this
as far as moving I explained earlier that what we would sell our house for ( and we haven't had a house payment in 5 years) wed have to take at least 50 to 85 thousand loan to buy where we went--house prices in the suburbs are way out of hand--and people are paying more then asking just to get the house
and whos going to give us a loan for that amount at our age were both 62 on social security and DH gets a pension plus we both work very limited part time
so this is why were so totally stuck
ok maybe mentioning the tribe wasn't the smartest thing but you get so frustrated that things just keep coming out
all I want is to be able to feel safe in my own home--have my grandkids over especially overnight --which has all been taken away from me by these "people"
oh well nothing much we can do--the police did tell us to call when we see things over there so that's why we call--but then talk is cheap
If people want to damage the house they live in, they are free to do so. If they don’t own the home, and a landlord is involved, smart landlords should check their properties!
It was a similar situation here - our former neighbor apparently had NO IDEA the tenants he'd originally rented to had moved and illegally sub-let the place to their music-blasting, pot-smoking, non-dog-mess-picker-upper college kids. He didn't have a professional property management firm and whenever he planned routine inspections the parents came back and pretended to still be living there. We didn't know he didn't know, and along with many other neighbours were totally fed up with the situation. It was actually the condo board that got in touch with him (we personally didn't have his contact info or we certainly would have used it). He turned things around as immediately as possible once he'd been fully informed.It’s another option for the neighbors to maybe get the tennants to straighten up or move out. When we had bad renters next to us the landlord appreciated us contacting him. He lived 3 hours away and a random drive by the property when he was in town is not the overall picture.
ok maybe mentioning the tribe wasn't the smartest thing but you get so frustrated that things just keep coming out
all I want is to be able to feel safe in my own home--have my grandkids over especially overnight --which has all been taken away from me by these "people"
oh well nothing much we can do--the police did tell us to call when we see things over there so that's why we call--but then talk is cheap
I totally agree that the ethnicity of the neighbors should not be a factor---it is the OP who put it front and center in multiple posts even though it ought not have a thing to do with the issue---thus my concern that she is seeing things in a distorted way---and if not, she is going to be taken much less seriously by others when airing her complaints if she continues to place that ethnicity in her complaints.The ethnicity of the tenants next door to the OP is beside the point. A lot of people here are hanging onto that. But if the OP had no mentioned one thing about the ethnic origins of the next door neighbors, all of you would be basically agreeing with the OP and offering support.
So consider this....
Put the ethnicity aside and just look at the tenants behavior. Put yourself in the OP's shoes. The OP & her DH are afraid for their safety. The tenants' behavior is concerning enough that the OP's son will no longer allow his children to be over at the OP's home unless he is over there with his kids. Why? Because he doesn't trust the neighbors.
So what should the OP do aside from move?
- install some motion-sensing lights on the outside of their home
- look at the outside of their house from the point of view of somebody trying to break in. Are there any trees or bushes that should be trimmed because they're blocking the windows or doors?
- if you don't lock the side gate to your backyard yet, get a heavy duty lock and start using it.
- buy 1 of those Ring doorbells...the ones that have built in cameras that will alert you on your cell phone whenever somebody is at the door.
- install some security cameras on the back of the house, too
- hire an alarm service/security company to set up a security system for your home and put 1 of their small security signs in your front yard
- continue calling the police every time something nefarious goes on next door
Trust me, it's just as frustrating for the officers as it is for you. They get the same calls day after day about the same people but often there's nothing within the law that warrants them taking further action other than giving warnings or citations. Just be polite each time you call (and call the non-emergency number) and let them know what you're seeing and document what you can. Eventually the cops will arrive while they're in the middle of doing something that's an arrestable offense.
Negative would be to nitpick at everything they do for the sake of nitpicking not for reasons such as a reasonable expectation of peaceful living. It's not their house, the OP stated it was rented to them. And you are able to do things inside your home to a point. There are local ordinances all around the country for that reason. Because the property is on tribe land may present a grey area.Or stop focusing on your neighbors in such a negative way. Keep busy in your lives and wear ear plugs so you aren’t woken at 4am. It is not great to have neighbors that have different habits or ways of living than you do, but they have the right to live in their house the way they would like. The world needs a little more acceptance and tolerance. People can get so involved in the negative.
lol I love the land of the free part. I think we all know it's land of the free with certain restrictions. Damage of property not owned by you is against the law in general though again tribe land may be the grey area. The residents inside the home do not actually own the property themselves as in they are on the deeds. And while I don't know the proximity to the homes if that brick hit someone that becomes a big issue regardless if they had owned the property.But is this land of the free, people can throw bricks through their own windows if they choose. If you don’t like the behavior of your neighbors you are free to change your place of living, but not their behavior.