i HATE that!! i spell my name "Kait", since it's "Kaitlyn" with the end chopped off, and while i understand everyone will default to "Kate", it's RIDICULOUS how many of my friends STILL SPELL IT WRONG.
and i mean my FRIENDS, people i've known for YEARS, who have seen my name written a bazillion times on Facebook and the like...it drives me mad!!
i love when people ask me how to spell my last name: Scott. i wasn't aware that was so difficult! (Ok, so i know it could be "Scot," but really since i auto-spell my first name, don'tcha think i'd specify that too?)
ETA: it also surprises me how many of my friends don't know my full name. Not that i use it, ever, but i have no idea why people think my name is "Kathleen" or "Kathryn". Um, hello, do you think i just pulled "Kait" out of thin air?!
then again, on of my bff's is really Catherine, but goes by Kayti...there is a backstory to it, but it is kinda weird.