Do Male Disney Fanactics Exist?

[ChevyNat]

To answer the question, Male Disney Fanatics DO exist. I know because I am one. I love almost everything Disney. I am the one that plans our trips for 6 months each year. I have been 80% packed for my upcoming trip for over a week now and I still have a week to go. I so look forward to each visit. I can't wait!

Wow, what a man... ha! I wish my Ex was more like you... I had to pack for him ha! ha! oh! and of course plan everything, down to the very little details. In a way I'm happy that I did, I can plan another trip and then another one etc.... since I did all the planning ha! ha!

 

[Dizmom0923]

Good Morning All. I hope everyone has a good Saturday. Been up all night long with no AC. My niece is celebrating her 2nd birthday today. It is really extra special because she was born at 25 weeks. She was 10.5 inches long and weighed only 14.8 ounces. Her chances of surviving were very slim but you would never know that now. Have a great day!!!

 

[ChevyNat]

Hello everyone, I was also up most of the night... my Greyhound got sprayed by a skunk around 11:00pm... He's big and did not want to get into the bath, solution? I called my EX ha! ha! it's his dog that he conviently left me to take care of. So he came and helped me wash him that late ha! ha! At around 2am, the dog started going up and down the stairs and running all over the place, so I was up calming him down and he went to sleep. I stayed up and read a little so I could feel sleepy again... what a night!
My ex did not call this morning to see how he was though.

Dizmom, have fun at the birthday today!!!

 

[Dizmom0923]

I don't know which is worse no, AC or having to wash a dog with your EX. The birthday party was nice but HOT. Ikept thinking I couldn't wait to get home into the cool air conditioned.....then I remebered. So, I still don't know when it will be fixed. I wish I was in DISNEY WORLD!!!!!!

 

[Gina]

To answer the question, Male Disney Fanatics DO exist. I know because I am one. I love almost everything Disney. I am the one that plans our trips for 6 months each year. I have been 80% packed for my upcoming trip for over a week now and I still have a week to go. I so look forward to each visit. I can't wait!

Bubba, you need to clone yourself. Seriously, I LOVE your tag text... what a great thought! A "Disney state of mind." I couldn't agree more!!

 

[ChevyNat]

These Disney men here seem to good to be true... Some are sensitive, others take charge and most know what they want in a companion... and all love Disney wow, I'm not use to this!!!!

 

[DISPOP]

Yes, the split up is quite recent, a month old recent... ha! I was gone to see my sister for a week with the kids in July, when I came back, he hit me with this news, he has more in common with this other woman and was leaving me, his sister suggested to leave me and not to think of the kids in this and only of his happiness... I was floored. I thought that he would get his own place, but no, he moved in his new girlfriend's house, 3 weeks after the seperation. So there's no room for my kids in there, there's barely room for him... ha!
But I'm very strong and got custody of the kids, he will see them every other week-end, but he said that there's no sleepovers... I am totally fine with it. ha!

Nat,
Sorry for what you are going through, but it sounds like you and your children are much better off without him. I'm not trying to bash the guy, but what kind of dad would say "no sleepovers" to his own children? Good luck helping them through their dad's rejection. And what's up with borrowing courage from his sister? At least take ownership for his own actions...Sorry to vent... I can get pretty outspoken when it comes to kids. I have two of my own and they always come first.

 

[DisneydaveCT]

Maybe one will be interested in a green eyed brunette with 2 sweet kids...

I think a woman who has green eyes is very sexy. I'm sorry to all those blue-eyed beauties, but green eyes are #1. And if she is a then .

It's been so long since I dated, what do single Disney men look for in a Disney ????

First of all, she must love Disney, not just tolerate it to "please her man."

After that, I am looking for a woman that I find attractive, both physically and intellectually. Yes, a brain would be nice.

She must also find me attactive.

She must understand that a true relationship is a partnership, not a contest. Even though a life-tiime of happiness is the ultimate prize. As someone already noted, there will be some unhappiness in a healthy relationship...that is life...but if the relationship is truly healthy then as you look back over the years you will see more happy times than sad ones.

She must also be an affectionate woman. For me a relationship without affection is not a relationship.

OK, now what I don't want is a woman who will spend complaining about her ex-husband and his inability to be a loving father to her kids. Nothing you say to me is going to change his attitude towards his kids. And having been a step-father once I know that kids will gravitate to a loving father-figure in the absence of a loving father. And from that father-figure (a.k.a step-father) they may learn about being a loving parent.

In other words ladies, if you are worried that your ex is not loving enough to his kids then make sure the next man who loves you can love your kids as if they were his own. It may sound like a tall order, but in time that order can be filled...and filled by a Disney Prince to boot if that is also what you want.

OK, my daughter wants to take over the computer so I better get back to my coffee.

 

[ChevyNat]

Dave, Thank you for the compliment.
I totally agree with what you are saying, I do vent on this thread, but keep a very cool face in-front of my kids and do not bash their father (even though sometimes his actions fills me with rage). I am very grateful that my parents leave next door and that my son gets to have a man around (a loving one) and there's my B.I.L who is also close to my kids.

My favorite time of the year is almost here, Fall, so I'm happy, I get to sign the divorce papers very soon and then I'm concentrating on our up-coming Disney trip.

 

[Dizmom0923]

I think a woman who has green eyes is a very sexy. I'm sorry to all those blue-eyed beauties, but green eyes are #1. And if she is a then .



First of all, she must love Disney, not just tolerate it to "please her man."

After that, I am looking for a woman that I find attractive, both physically and intellectually. Yes, a brain would be nice.

She must also find me attactive.

She must understand that a true relationship is a partnership, not a contest. Even though a life-tiime of happiness is the ultimate prize. As someone already noted, there will be some unhappiness in a healthy relationship...that is life...but if the relationship is truly healthy then as you look back over the years you will see more happy times than sad ones.

She must also be an affectionate woman. For me a relationship without affection is not a relationship.

OK, now what I don't want is a woman who will spend complaining about her ex-husband and his inability to be a loving father to her kids. Nothing you say to me is going to change his attitude towards his kids. And having been a step-father once I know that kids will gravitate to a loving father-figure in the absence of a loving father. And from that father-figure (a.k.a step-father) they may learn about being a loving parent.

In other words ladies, if you are worried that your ex is not loving enough to his kids then make sure the next man who loves you can love your kids as if they were his own. It may sound like a tall order, but in time that order can be filled...and filled by a Disney Prince to boot if that is also what you want.

OK, my daughter wants to take over the computer so I better get back to my coffee.

VERY well said. I too, have used this thread for venting, sometimes its just hard to keep it all in. Especially when someone elses situation is so much like mine and we are able to relate. Sorry.
From now on I will use this thread to find the rest of the existent fanatic men!!!

 

[PirateMel]

VERY well said. I too, have used this thread for venting, sometimes its just hard to keep it all in. Especially when someone elses situation is so much like mine and we are able to relate. Sorry.
From now on I will use this thread to find the rest of the existent fanatic men!!!

Thank you for you honesty as well.
The love for Disney is a major part of my life and to find someone who shares that as well, and not just tolerate it, would definatley be something wonderful.

 

[ChevyNat]

Yes, we are also Disney fanatics... it's nice to all meet up here and just have fun. This place keeps me happy until my next trip to Disney!

 

[Onceler]

Yes, there are at least a few of us single, male, Disney fanatics around. Of course, "fanatic" is a bit relative. One person's "fanatic" is another person's "nutty". Then again, as members of the DISboards, none of us can ever be considered nutty, right?

 

[ChevyNat]

VERY well said. I too, have used this thread for venting, sometimes its just hard to keep it all in. Especially when someone elses situation is so much like mine and we are able to relate. Sorry.
From now on I will use this thread to find the rest of the existent fanatic men!!!

You can PM me anytime and I'll give you my email address... so we can compare stories and keep us updated ha! ha!

 

[ChevyNat]

Yes, there are at least a few of us single, male, Disney fanatics around. Of course, "fanatic" is a bit relative. One person's "fanatic" is another person's "nutty". Then again, as members of the DISboards, none of us can ever be considered nutty, right?

Welcome Disney nut!! an other to add to our list ha!

 

[xnascar2x]

I'm 32 years old and love everything Disney!

 

[ChevyNat]

I'm 32 years old and love everything Disney!

Wow, you were lucky to be able to take that wonderful picture.

 

[PirateMel]

I'm 32 years old and love everything Disney!

Kinda of small for 32 aren't you?
LOVE the car! I mised it on my last visit.

 

[PirateMel]

I think a woman who has green eyes is a very sexy. I'm sorry to all those blue-eyed beauties, but green eyes are #1. And if she is a then .

Brown eyes here
Enjoy the time with your DD.

 

[ChevyNat]

Kinda of small for 32 aren't you?
LOVE the car! I mised it on my last visit.

Good one...