Do Male Disney Fanactics Exist?

[debbiet1]

I'll be ok thanks. Its just a rough time. Small town = same funeral home my mom was at which makes it really hard and then having everyone (older people) come up and say you must be ______ daughter you look just like her, how long is it now etc etc etc.. I just find it hard to handle.

 

[ChevyNat]

Debbie, So sorry, it must be hard

 

[Dizmom0923]

I'll be ok thanks. Its just a rough time. Small town = same funeral home my mom was at which makes it really hard and then having everyone (older people) come up and say you must be ______ daughter you look just like her, how long is it now etc etc etc.. I just find it hard to handle.

Sorry for your loss.

Well the clothes do occasionally fall off but then I am naked and vomiting. Just not a pretty sight.

 

[Master Mason]

I know that feeling Nat. I mean sure I need some time every now and then just to breathe but I love the feeling of them being at home in THERE OWN beds.

As a single parent that has joint custody, I can assure you that at least in my case, my kids simply had two of "their own" beds.

 

[KyDerbyMan]

As a single parent that has joint custody, I can assure you that at least in my case, my kids simply had two of "their own" beds.

Splitting time between parents is rough on kids so making them as comfortable as possible in each household is paramount. But that can't always happen. I don't know how long ChevyNat has been split but if it's very recent and her ex is already moving in with someone, that's going to put the kids in a very awkward and uncomfortable situation. They're still trying to get used to mom and dad being apart and then, boom, here comes a new woman and more kids into the picture.

I wish I had my girls full time all of the time, I honestly think it would be better and more nurturing for them but that would require a bit of a court fight for my youngest and I'm not putting myself or the kids thru the stress.


Life....ain't it grand?


Let's all take a break and go to Disney!!!!

 

[DisneydaveCT]

What is Foo foo? I like to try new things...
I went on dismate once... I don't know! it was fun, but seemed to be more young (college) people on it. Maybe it was just the time that I went on it. But I don't think it's for me...

Oh there are several of us who have been out of college for a many years so c'mon in and join the chat.

 

[Dizmom0923]

As a single parent that has joint custody, I can assure you that at least in my case, my kids simply had two of "their own" beds.

Well in my case they have one place where they have "their own" beds. Good for you and your ex if you were able to do things differently but my case isn't like that.

 

[ChevyNat]

Splitting time between parents is rough on kids so making them as comfortable as possible in each household is paramount. But that can't always happen. I don't know how long ChevyNat has been split but if it's very recent and her ex is already moving in with someone, that's going to put the kids in a very awkward and uncomfortable situation. They're still trying to get used to mom and dad being apart and then, boom, here comes a new woman and more kids into the picture.

I wish I had my girls full time all of the time, I honestly think it would be better and more nurturing for them but that would require a bit of a court fight for my youngest and I'm not putting myself or the kids thru the stress.


Life....ain't it grand?


Let's all take a break and go to Disney!!!!

Yes, the split up is quite recent, a month old recent... ha! I was gone to see my sister for a week with the kids in July, when I came back, he hit me with this news, he has more in common with this other woman and was leaving me, his sister suggested to leave me and not to think of the kids in this and only of his happiness... I was floored. I thought that he would get his own place, but no, he moved in his new girlfriend's house, 3 weeks after the seperation. So there's no room for my kids in there, there's barely room for him... ha!
But I'm very strong and got custody of the kids, he will see them every other week-end, but he said that there's no sleepovers... I am totally fine with it. ha!

 

[Dizmom0923]

Good for you Nat! My soon to be EX doesn't have anyone else, we just had so many other problems. Main one being kids were and still aren't a priority. My kids are my life and I am sure everyone on here feels the same, single parent or not. I must say it is time for me to finally start living my new life and enjoying them while they are still young.

 

[ChevyNat]

Good for you Nat! My soon to be EX doesn't have anyone else, we just had so many other problems. Main one being kids were and still aren't a priority. My kids are my life and I am sure everyone on here feels the same, single parent or not. I must say it is time for me to finally start living my new life and enjoying them while they are still young.

And I can say the same for you, good for you too ha! ha! We are alike in many aspect ha! In his family, kids are not a priority either, and in my family they are everything. So we had our problems long before too and it was time for him to leave also, he was holding me back... I am so liberated right now and so positive that I almost scare myself ha! ha! I just really feel great, am I weird after such a short time?

 

[KyDerbyMan]

Yes, the split up is quite recent, a month old recent... ha! I was gone to see my sister for a week with the kids in July, when I came back, he hit me with this news, he has more in common with this other woman and was leaving me, his sister suggested to leave me and not to think of the kids in this and only of his happiness... I was floored. I thought that he would get his own place, but no, he moved in his new girlfriend's house, 3 weeks after the seperation. So there's no room for my kids in there, there's barely room for him... ha!
But I'm very strong and got custody of the kids, he will see them every other week-end, but he said that there's no sleepovers... I am totally fine with it. ha!

Certainly good for you but it's going to take your kids a while to get used to their Dad, basically, pushing them out of his life. That really sucks for them.

Personally, I don't see how a guy can want to live a life away from his kids. I really don't. My girls are everything to me and I'd keep them every day of every week if I could...well, a bit of a break here and there isn't toooo bad.

But, hang in there, esp. in a few months when he finds out the grass ain't so much greener on the other side and comes back begging. "Talk to the hand!"

 

[Dizmom0923]

And I can say the same for you, good for you too ha! ha! We are alike in many aspect ha! In his family, kids are not a priority either, and in my family they are everything. So we had our problems long before too and it was time for him to leave also, he was holding me back... I am so liberated right now and so positive that I almost scare myself ha! ha! I just really feel great, am I weird after such a short time?

Not at all. I have my doubtful moments(only because it is all so new again) but in the end I know that I am so much better off. I am able to go home and not worry what kind of mood of his I am walking in to. The kids are able to be kids and I am able to be me.

 

[Dizmom0923]

Certainly good for you but it's going to take your kids a while to get used to their Dad, basically, pushing them out of his life. That really sucks for them.

Personally, I don't see how a guy can want to live a life away from his kids. I really don't. My girls are everything to me and I'd keep them every day of every week if I could...well, a bit of a break here and there isn't toooo bad.

But, hang in there, esp. in a few months when he finds out the grass ain't so much greener on the other side and comes back begging. "Talk to the hand!"

I just told a good friend the same exact thing last night. How can he can go days even a month at times without even trying to see his son? He only lives 15 min. away, how hard is it to pick him up even just to grab McDonalds or go to the park for an hour.

 

[debbiet1]

my .02 to make everyone smile.. Puts Dizmom and Nat up on a rock.. ok so its pride rock.. i've been disneytized... gets out.. wand.. ok now on 3.. 1..2..3.. Together now... We are women hear us ROAR!!! ok i'll go back to cleaning house now lol

 

[Johnfish]

I just told a good friend the same exact thing last night. How can he can go days even a month at times without even trying to see his son? He only lives 15 min. away, how hard is it to pick him up even just to grab McDonalds or go to the park for an hour.

I delt with the same thing with my ex. She would cancel dates with my son all the time. He was crestfallen when that would happen (years ago) Now he has just accepted it. In fact he has made less of an effort to contact her as he has gotten older. I think it is just sad when a parent doesnt care enough to want to see their own kids. It also amazes me that a mom who carried her child in her own body for 9 months could have so little interest.

This was one of the main reasons why I waited so long after we divorced to start dating again. I wanted to make sure Matt had at least one full time parent. I am having a tough time with that now as I so love being a dad and would have loved to have more children. I love my son but I missed having younger kids around to do all the fun stuff with.

I know I have being a g-pop to look forward to but I am just not ready to be that "OLD" yet!!

John

 

[BigANT 61]

well im 27 i love disney i have been every year for the past 10 years. it seems to be the only place where i can go to be a kid again and just relax. waiting on jan so i can go back.

 

[PirateMel]

= Drink with fruity flavor, lots of alcohol, but doesn't taste it, then they hit you. Yum!
I need Disney today

 

[Pip Loves Mickey]

Hi all!! It's me again the OP!! Not to burst anybody's bubble, but I think we may have gotten a little off topic. I'm not saying that we should not be able to digress, but we have moved almost to DL on this subject .

Please don't suggest the grammatically incorrect poster looking for women 25-35 . I'd have to hurt myself if I had to chat with him.

 

[Master Mason]

but we have moved almost to DL on this subject .[/COLOR]

and what is wrong with DL, I love DL

 

[Dizmom0923]

my .02 to make everyone smile.. Puts Dizmom and Nat up on a rock.. ok so its pride rock.. i've been disneytized... gets out.. wand.. ok now on 3.. 1..2..3.. Together now... We are women hear us ROAR!!! ok i'll go back to cleaning house now lol

Thank you!!!! OKAY.....I will no longer whine. Sorry I just got a bit carried away with Nat relating to my situation. Now on to those male Disney Fanatics......