Do Male Disney Fanactics Exist?

[Dizmom0923]

I delt with the same thing with my ex. She would cancel dates with my son all the time. He was crestfallen when that would happen (years ago) Now he has just accepted it. In fact he has made less of an effort to contact her as he has gotten older. I think it is just sad when a parent doesnt care enough to want to see their own kids. It also amazes me that a mom who carried her child in her own body for 9 months could have so little interest.

This was one of the main reasons why I waited so long after we divorced to start dating again. I wanted to make sure Matt had at least one full time parent. I am having a tough time with that now as I so love being a dad and would have loved to have more children. I love my son but I missed having younger kids around to do all the fun stuff with.

I know I have being a g-pop to look forward to but I am just not ready to be that "OLD" yet!!

John

Who knows John maybe we can do a Disney meet and you can see it through my sons eyes. I promise he will def. keep you moving.

 

[BigANT 61]

whew glad i missed all this drama.

 

[Dizmom0923]

Hi all!! It's me again the OP!! Not to burst anybody's bubble, but I think we may have gotten a little off topic. I'm not saying that we should not be able to digress, but we have moved almost to DL on this subject .

Please don't suggest the grammatically incorrect poster looking for women 25-35 . I'd have to hurt myself if I had to chat with him.

Sorry Pip, didn't mean to hijack your thread.

 

[Dizmom0923]

= Drink with fruity flavor, lots of alcohol, but doesn't taste it, then they hit you. Yum!
I need Disney today

Mel, I need Disney every day. TODAY I could use a Foo Foo drink.

 

[PirateMel]

And a talk dark and hadsome man to serve it to me

It's been so long since I dated, what do single Disney men look for in a Disney ????

 

[Gina]

And a talk dark and hadsome man to serve it to me

I like the way you think!

It's been so long since I dated, what do single Disney men look for in a Disney ????

That's a really great question... I'm looking forward to seeing what all these guys have to say! Heck, while you're at it, tell me what a date is like, period. Can't remember.

 

[ChevyNat]

I like tall, dark and handsome.... ha! ha! have to wait till Oct.2008 to see any... ha! ha!
Maybe one will be interested in a green eyed brunette with 2 sweet kids...

 

[Master Mason]

It's been so long since I dated, what do single Disney men look for in a Disney ????

1. Acceptance of who I am and what I do. I am 42 years old, your not going to be able to mold me into what you want me to be, what you see is what your going to get.

2. An interest in who I am and what I do. They don't have to want to be with me every waking moment, but they must want to share in my life. And I would be wanting to do the same. And a realization that it is ok to have some seperate interests as well.

3. There has to be a phyical attraction, yes that really is important. Not looking for a beauty queen, but there does have to be that spark.

4. Someone that understands that a relationship has ups and downs, and is williing to work though the down times instead of bailing out.

5. Someone that understands I am a dad, I have my parenting style and to see requirement number 1 as it applies here as well.

Thats a pretty good start

 

[PirateMel]

1. Acceptance of who I am and what I do. I am 42 years old, your not going to be able to mold me into what you want me to be, what you see is what your going to get.

2. An interest in who I am and what I do. They don't have to want to be with me every waking moment, but they must want to share in my life. And I would be wanting to do the same. And a realization that it is ok to have some seperate interests as well.

3. There has to be a phyical attraction, yes that really is important. Not looking for a beauty queen, but there does have to be that spark.

4. Someone that understands that a relationship has ups and downs, and is williing to work though the down times instead of bailing out.

5. Someone that understands I am a dad, I have my parenting style and to see requirement number 1 as it applies here as well.

Thats a pretty good start

Very thorough, thank you.
But I am suprised that you would list attaction as number three?
Is it more important to share the same interests, or start off with some type of spark?
When you meet a for the first time, what is the first thing (not physical attribute) that you see that would catch your attention?

 

[Huff]

I like tall, dark and handsome.... ha! ha! have to wait till Oct.2008 to see any... ha! ha!
Maybe one will be interested in a green eyed brunette with 2 sweet kids...

Cute kids but I'm hoping thats not you in the middle! lol

 

[Pip Loves Mickey]

Hi all!! I don't fell that my thread was hijacked. I enjoyed the reading and the love!! It's nice to know that there is so much love and caring on the DIS. It let me know that dreams really do come true and the world really is a nice place underneath all that grime!! It's almost Disney-like!!

Now. . . on to more fun topics!! Can I get that tall, dark and handsome man with the alcohol sent my way? Don't wear him out before you send him!! (Or drink all of the liquor)

 

[Master Mason]

Very thorough, thank you.
But I am suprised that you would list attaction as number three?
Is it more important to share the same interests, or start off with some type of spark?

I think that depends on lot on the situation. It is true that there is more to beauty than what you see when you look at someone. I have had a couple of relationships where the spark was first, and then we found out we shared interests, but I have had many more where the interests were first, and the spark developed after we knew each other. With both of my ex wives, we knew each other for year(s) before we started dating.

When you meet a for the first time, what is the first thing (not physical attribute) that you see that would catch your attention?

Again depends on the situation, but in general, are they having a good time where ever it is that we have met? Is there a smile on their face? Are they enjoying being with their kids or is it a chore they have to complete?

 

[PirateMel]

Hi all!! I don't fell that my thread was hijacked. I enjoyed the reading and the love!! It's nice to know that there is so much love and caring on the DIS. It let me know that dreams really do come true and the world really is a nice place underneath all that grime!! It's almost Disney-like!!

Now. . . on to more fun topics!! Can I get that tall, dark and handsome man with the alcohol sent my way? Don't wear him out before you send him!! (Or drink all of the liquor)

I mix you a nice, stong, cold one, and If I can find an extra TDH one, I send him down too, provided your 'boys' let my 'boys' win the game tonight! Only kidding.

 

[ChevyNat]

Cute kids but I'm hoping thats not you in the middle! lol

Ha! ha! that's funny... Me in the middle? it depends who you ask! if it's my Ex and Ex-in-laws, they might say yes, she is a b***h...

 

[PirateMel]

I think that depends on lot on the situation. It is true that there is more to beauty than what you see when you look at someone. I have had a couple of relationships where the spark was first, and then we found out we shared interests, but I have had many more where the interests were first, and the spark developed after we knew each other. With both of my ex wives, we knew each other for year(s) before we started dating.

Again depends on the situation, but in general, are they having a good time where ever it is that we have met? Is there a smile on their face? Are they enjoying being with their kids or is it a chore they have to complete?

Nice honest answers, I greatly appreciate you responses.
Thank you

 

[debbiet1]

I dont think you took it as the laugh I meant it to be. Sorry.. Dizmom I didnt mean anything about a whine. I was trying to be a smart*** guess it didnt work out that way.. Sorry it didnt come out the way I meant it to. I'll let you guys get back to your thread. Sorry again.

 

[aeryn]

1. Acceptance of who I am and what I do. I am 42 years old, your not going to be able to mold me into what you want me to be, what you see is what your going to get.

2. An interest in who I am and what I do. They don't have to want to be with me every waking moment, but they must want to share in my life. And I would be wanting to do the same. And a realization that it is ok to have some seperate interests as well.

3. There has to be a phyical attraction, yes that really is important. Not looking for a beauty queen, but there does have to be that spark.

4. Someone that understands that a relationship has ups and downs, and is williing to work though the down times instead of bailing out.

5. Someone that understands I am a dad, I have my parenting style and to see requirement number 1 as it applies here as well.

Thats a pretty good start

Wow. Too bad I can't find one like you in the Central Florida area

 

[Dizmom0923]

I dont think you took it as the laugh I meant it to be. Sorry.. Dizmom I didnt mean anything about a whine. I was trying to be a smart*** guess it didnt work out that way.. Sorry it didnt come out the way I meant it to. I'll let you guys get back to your thread. Sorry again.

Please don't be sorry and yes I did laugh. I am a smart*** too. I just knew I was getting carried away with talking about the EX. No apology is necessary, I totally got what you meant.

 

[bubba73]

To answer the question, Male Disney Fanatics DO exist. I know because I am one. I love almost everything Disney. I am the one that plans our trips for 6 months each year. I have been 80% packed for my upcoming trip for over a week now and I still have a week to go. I so look forward to each visit. I can't wait!

 

[ChevyNat]

Debbie, don't go away... I have so much fun talking to you. Is your Disney trip still a go? And is Hubby still willing to go... good luck!