Pre-pubescent boys who are still in the "girls are gross" phase. Anything with a girl's name in it is still "gross". I am enjoying every minute of it now because I know all too well it will change and then I'll be faced with " Dad, I need the car keys tonight for a date" or the years of basing everything on impressing a girl, etc...
Maybe remind the boys that "Cinderella" castle is actually owned by the Prince? In the days of Cinderella I HIGHLY doubt that she would be allowed to actually OWN anything, and when she married the Prince she moved into his castle. Might even be the King's castle if the King is still alive. It's cute to call it hers, but it's doubtful that it would have been hers at all.
At least Sleeping Beauty castle, assuming it's from Aurora's father, was in HER family. Unless she moved to Phillip's kingdom.
Anyway, castles are manly and cool when you don't think of a princess involved. DS keeps a whole stash of cardboard boxes that he routinely makes into a castle, plays with/in/around all day, then smashes to the ground in a highly manly fashion.
May I suggest you continue to make crude remarks concerning children in public? Perhaps you land in a place more suited to your lifestyle: Prison.
Son, children are off limits in any context you want to imagine. When you have some of your own you will realize that. For now take this as a lesson, say it person to someone and you may not like the result.
And who said I think being gay is bad? Are you to assume I am NOT gay?? Just because I have children? This isn't about orientation; it's about children. Infer something crude towards anyone's children on here and I can promise that 100% of parents will take offense to it.
Not sure how thinking someone might be gay is "crude" or insulting. People make assumptions about their children all the time.
When DS was a few months old, my gay brother in law started calling him a "lady killer". He was assuming that DS would be straight. Is that offensive? What if someone had said he would make the boys all aflutter. Is that offensive? Neither is any worse than the other, unless my brother in law was actually assuming my son would grow up to be an actual killer? I don't think he was saying that.
Of course, the person talking about men in tights is just being silly; it's very common for boys and young men to imagine themselves impervious superheroes, and tights just show off incredibly muscled legs. He could easily have been responded to like that. Your feelings that his statements were crude and offensive just don't go along with your statement that you would support your sons if they are gay.