Welcome Jenn. This thread has been kind of quiet and bcwife hasn't posted in months, they could have cancelled or could just not have had the time to post. Just a heads up I wouldn't rely on them seeing your message here to get you on their FE, which it looks like was organized on another website and they can't share that info on these boards.
To be honest, this is our first
DCL cruise, and while the FE sounds fun it also sounds like a lot of work, there is going to be so much going on I don't think you guys will have any less fun. You can always buy a few goodies yourself for the kids and place them into your FE yourself, just a thought.
46 days to go, look forward to seeing you onboard!