Universal is cheaper. In all ways. You have to then rent a car or cab if you want to go off property.
With little ones I personally think of the time value of money. Lugging them back to the car at the end of the night, waking them up, paying for parking each day, no thanks.
I do think the hotels at Disney for Deluxe are overpriced, but there is someone out there wiling to pay it, so I cannot begrudge Disney for maximizing profits.
Lines are great times for me to talk and spend time with my family. Which is, to me, the point of my vacation. Naturally I wouldn.t wait in a 60 minute line, but I am confident once the glitches are worked out, that won't be the case for most rides.
I enjoy getting my vacation packet months in advance, discussing dining options with my husband, talking about strategies, all of that is part of my vacation experience so this new plan is right up my alley.
Sorry people do not like it, but I have never had a problem in the past two years walking up to Le Cellier and Ohana and getting in. I do not go in summer or school vacation weeks so I understand that frustration. However, if you truly love something and feel like you are a die hard fan, then you will find a way to make changes work for you and your family.
If this pushes someone to Universal instead, have at it. I do not understand the need to freak out on those of us who either like or want to give the new system a chance before we stomp our feet and start threatening to take our toys to a different sandbox.

Give it a chance!