Disboutiquers Part 20 Kids Disney Boutique / Customs Clothes psst..we sew ;-)

[LisaZoe]

Yep I am a figment of your imagination when it comes to birth/baby stories. I have been actually told that I "don't count" and that I have no idea what a woman goes through. So when this topic pops up I usually take a break for a few days.

Ugh, why do some people feel the need to do that? I think everyone has a story about how they became parents - whether through a biological process or some other way. The former isn't more valid than the others, just different.

 

[PolyndianPrincessJes]

Are you using stabilizer?? Did you read the HeatherSue tutorial on the front page? To me it looks like it isn't stable enough. I'd use some fusible cutaway.. preferably polymesh so it doesn't itch the skin. Doesn't have to be fusible either.. I just like it because you don't have to worry about it moving. I prefer cutaways for knits like t shirts and tearaway for wovens.

I had a little scrap I found in a sewing grab bag (aka a bunch of junk she wanted to get rid of ) a friend gave me. Maybe starting fresh with a piece the right size would be a good idea. Could that really make it look, um, decent? I was just really excited to try this for the first time, and I didn't want to wait until tomorrow after a trip to the store.

 

[PolyndianPrincessJes]

Yep I am a figment of your imagination when it comes to birth/baby stories. I have been actually told that I "don't count" and that I have no idea what a woman goes through. So when this topic pops up I usually take a break for a few days.

DS4 is actually my cousin. His mom was killed in a car accident when he was 6 months old. When he was younger, on occasion, I got attitude and/or awkward looks when the other moms start talking about pregnancy, etc. Now that he's started in the "big school," not everyone knows our situation and those that do are close friends. Remember, those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind. Even though adoptive moms didn't get to carry their kiddos in their tummies, you got to conceive them in your heart, and I think that's pretty amazing.

 

[rie'smom]

Ugh, why do some people feel the need to do that? I think everyone has a story about how they became parents - whether through a biological process or some other way. The former isn't more valid than the others, just different.

Really, I gave birth to our 2 sons and we adopted our daughter. People would say things like I bet you're glad you didn't have to go through labor or a section and I'd say right back, "Labor? Section? I was in agony for 6 months on pins and needles worrying that the birth mother would change her mind."
In no way is this meant to demean those experiences. It was just my reply to a few women who were being catty.

 

[*Toadstool*]

Am I right in thinking 50 is a steal? It needs a new belt but that is only 5-10 bucks. It looks to be in good condition for its age.

Yeah I'd think so. Does it come with the cabinet to put it on?

Mine is like that and has the table. My grandma gave it to me, so I definitely got a good deal.
I'd love to have it on display in my house one day. Don't have the space for it now. It is quite large!

 

[karenTX]

It's amazing how many NICU babies we have here!! Long story made very short...2 years to get PG, 2 miscarriages, 2 surgeries later got PG #3, almost lost her, she decided to stop growing at 26 weeks, had CS at 29 weeks thanks to Preeclampsia and HELLP syndrome. She weighed in at 1lb 10oz and spent 52 days in the NICU. Now, a very active headstrong 5 yo. But also VERY petite!!! Had some minor PT and Speech therapy problems but is doing great now!

 

[*Toadstool*]

I had a little scrap I found in a sewing grab bag (aka a bunch of junk she wanted to get rid of ) a friend gave me. Maybe starting fresh with a piece the right size would be a good idea. Could that really make it look, um, decent? I was just really excited to try this for the first time, and I didn't want to wait until tomorrow after a trip to the store.

Yes, it really helps. You'd want a piece bigger than the initial so that it covers the whole area. It doesn't look bad, but it could look better if you know what I mean. I'm a bit obsessed with perfectly stabilizing things though. I hate puckers and stitches that sink into the fabric. Knits are harder than wovens imo. A ballpoint needle would probably be a good idea for knits too.

 

[PolyndianPrincessJes]

Yes, it really helps. You'd want a piece bigger than the initial so that it covers the whole area. It doesn't look bad, but it could look better if you know what I mean. I'm a bit obsessed with perfectly stabilizing things though. I hate puckers and stitches that sink into the fabric. Knits are harder than wovens imo. A ballpoint needle would probably be a good idea for knits too.

No need to walk on eggshells. I'm perfectly aware it looks like I stitched that during an earthquake. OK, I'll definitely get some tomorrow. Thanks for the tips!!!

 

[itsheresomewhere]

Yeah I'd think so. Does it come with the cabinet to put it on?

Mine is like that and has the table. My grandma gave it to me, so I definitely got a good deal.
I'd love to have it on display in my house one day. Don't have the space for it now. It is quite large!

It comes with the cabinet. I asked for her to email the size as my sewing room is only so big.

 

[*Toadstool*]

It comes with the cabinet. I asked for her to email the size as my sewing room is only so big.

That's good. It is really nice sewing on a sewing machine that is flush with the table/cabinet. I'm working on that with my Bernina. Hubby is going to cut a hole in there and put one of those hydraullic lift things..

 

[DisneyKings]

Since Joci's personality fits with this character very well....... She is going to have Dory and her dress will have Just Keep Swimming on it a few times. I am really hoping I have enough time for it. I can't find a Dory design to put in my machine which would make it so much easier. I put the Squirt applique on the fabric this afternoon and hopefully will start stitching on it Wednesday. I have to work tonight & tomorrow, then again Sat & SUn. I am wishing I can get these done but am doubting myself a little because we leave in 8 days.
Here is Squirt but don't look too closely at the spots I will have to do some hand stitching to make them nice on the edges, which is ok by me since it did save me a lot of time.

Love this one too, can't wait to see Dory!

I know that there are some absolutely wonderful people who work in the NICU. I believe a few of them are right here on our thread! But, the ones at the hospital I was in weren't the best I'm sorry to say. It's like you are thrown into an entirely different world, and no one is there to help you figure out what is going on. It's scary. It's almost as if your baby isn't even your baby. At least, that's how it was for us. But, oddly, I bonded with Lydia quicker than I did with my other two. I think it was the threat of her dying that did it. With Corey and Arminda it took me a few days to "bond". I loved them immediately, don't get me wrong, but the other level took a day.

Yes, you're right, we did have one GREAT nurse who only worked at night. I begged her to stay for the day shift!

Question??????

DD4 went and saw the speech pathologist today. She mentioned that she saw signs of a possible sensory integration issue. She was already refered to a behavorist. So now she the speech pathologist said something about an OT seeing her. I know nothing about this, any input.

She also will now be doing speech 3 days a wk, she is really behind for her age.

I'm an SLP--is she getting speech privately or at school? A severe speech delay &/or SI issues could be playing a big part in her behavior issues too. Feel free to PM me with ?s

Yep I am a figment of your imagination when it comes to birth/baby stories. I have been actually told that I "don't count" and that I have no idea what a woman goes through. So when this topic pops up I usually take a break for a few days.

I'm sure you had your birthing pains--emotional tumoil is no less painful! I never went through labor, so there are some aspects I can't relate to either.

It's amazing how many NICU babies we have here!! Long story made very short...2 years to get PG, 2 miscarriages, 2 surgeries later got PG #3, almost lost her, she decided to stop growing at 26 weeks, had CS at 29 weeks thanks to Preeclampsia and HELLP syndrome. She weighed in at 1lb 10oz and spent 52 days in the NICU. Now, a very active headstrong 5 yo. But also VERY petite!!! Had some minor PT and Speech therapy problems but is doing great now!

Hey--I had HELLP syndrome too! Most people I meet have never heard of it.

 

[h518may]

Really, I gave birth to our 2 sons and we adopted our daughter. People would say things like I bet you're glad you didn't have to go through labor or a section and I'd say right back, "Labor? Section? I was in agony for 6 months on pins and needles worrying that the birth mother would change her mind."
In no way is this meant to demean those experiences. It was just my reply to a few women who were being catty.

I adopted both of mine. I so understand the pins and needles part. We went through the foster/adopt program in our state. With Tim we got him at 9 days old, but the parents rights were not terminated until he was 19 months and the adoption was finalized 2 weeks before his 2nd birthday.

With Ashley we picked her up at the hospital at 2 days old. The parents rights were terminated at 13months and we finalized the adoption at 18 months.

Waiting for termination of parents rights and worrying about Birth family coming forward made for some very long months. After two kids I was so ready to never have a social worker in my home again.

And Lisazoe- we got our call for Ash Tuesday before Thanksgiving and picked her up on Wen. Aren't Thanksgivings great.

 

[GoofyG]

Disneykings- She is doing speech att he public schools. But today we met with a private speech pathologist. She is the one that mentioned SI after coming out of evaluating her.

 

[glorib]

All these NICU stories are making this former NICU nurse want to go back! I miss my tiny babies!

 

[teresajoy]

Yep I am a figment of your imagination when it comes to birth/baby stories. I have been actually told that I "don't count" and that I have no idea what a woman goes through. So when this topic pops up I usually take a break for a few days.

Well, don't listen to people like that! You baby story is no less important than anyone elses! I love to hear all the different ways people have their babies!

Ugh, why do some people feel the need to do that? I think everyone has a story about how they became parents - whether through a biological process or some other way. The former isn't more valid than the others, just different.

Yes, exactly!

It's amazing how many NICU babies we have here!! Long story made very short...2 years to get PG, 2 miscarriages, 2 surgeries later got PG #3, almost lost her, she decided to stop growing at 26 weeks, had CS at 29 weeks thanks to Preeclampsia and HELLP syndrome. She weighed in at 1lb 10oz and spent 52 days in the NICU. Now, a very active headstrong 5 yo. But also VERY petite!!! Had some minor PT and Speech therapy problems but is doing great now!

You went through a lot! It was bad enough having Lyddie in the NICU for just a few days, but to have her there 52 days would have been torture!

I adopted both of mine. I so understand the pins and needles part. We went through the foster/adopt program in our state. With Tim we got him at 9 days old, but the parents rights were not terminated until he was 19 months and the adoption was finalized 2 weeks before his 2nd birthday.

With Ashley we picked her up at the hospital at 2 days old. The parents rights were terminated at 13months and we finalized the adoption at 18 months.

Waiting for termination of parents rights and worrying about Birth family coming forward made for some very long months. After two kids I was so ready to never have a social worker in my home again.

And Lisazoe- we got our call for Ash Tuesday before Thanksgiving and picked her up on Wen. Aren't Thanksgivings great.

When a friend of mine was adopting her latest baby, I was just worried sick for her. I can't even imagine how much worse it is for the parents.

All these NICU stories are making this former NICU nurse want to go back! I miss my tiny babies!

When I think of the days of Lydia in the NICU, I always imagine that there was someone like you (ok, to be honest, I just imagine you!) that I didn't know about, who took care of Lydia. So, thank you!

 

[Tweevil]

Drive by posting.....
Sending blessings to those who requested and white light to surround you and your loved ones with strength.

Also, all this talk about babies and stuff has me wanting to make a statement... It doesn't matter if you gave birth or not, if you are a mommy or daddy to someone that's who you are. Too many people have the priviledge to be able to have kids and do not embrace it for what it is - the chance to bestow love on a child. I am 1 for 5 so I know some of the heartaches and I tell you - I give lots of praise to those who can adopt or foster. I have thought of that many times and cannot bring myself to do it because once I have a child with me, it's part of my DNA. I could never deal with having to give them back. So for that very reason, I will be happy with my one punk butt child and be glad to love him. And additional praise goes to those who have had a miracle child, I have seen many a parent in the NICU who would give anthing to trade places with the wee one struggling. It is a very hard thing to go through.

And, I have a meeting from you know where tomorrow am so wish me luck with these financials (I swear these meetings (monthly) are enough to make me want to look for new employment. Very stressful.....

happy sewing everyone!

 

[LisaZoe]

Really, I gave birth to our 2 sons and we adopted our daughter. People would say things like I bet you're glad you didn't have to go through labor or a section and I'd say right back, "Labor? Section? I was in agony for 6 months on pins and needles worrying that the birth mother would change her mind."
In no way is this meant to demean those experiences. It was just my reply to a few women who were being catty.

My now former niece-in-law made a comment once about how I became a mom 'the easy way'. I tried to politely but clearly outline all that I had to do to even be considered as a potential parent: criminal background check, financial review to make sure I could support a child, home study visits to make sure I was emotionally ready as well as having a home that was suitable for a baby. I think she started to understand that just because I adopted didn't mean it was the easy route to parenthood by any means.

 

[Tink561]

Baby stories...


I don't do baby pictures. But if anyone ever REALLLY wants to be scared I will share my "baby delivery" story. (And I am talking the stuff that happened before I met her) Fees, government agencies, being told I did not exist(according to the government), lost paper work........ atleast you guys got DRUGS!

Ugh, I hear ya! I've done it lots of ways... ******l, c-section and international adoption. The adoption was the hardest by far!!!

 

[livndisney]

My now former niece-in-law made a comment once about how I became a mom 'the easy way'. I tried to politely but clearly outline all that I had to do to even be considered as a potential parent: criminal background check, financial review to make sure I could support a child, home study visits to make sure I was emotionally ready as well as having a home that was suitable for a baby. I think she started to understand that just because I adopted didn't mean it was the easy route to parenthood by any means.

You know it's funny, but I after my experience I thought the other way was the "easy way".. Truth us, there is no easy way to become a parent. And it doesn't seem to get easier as a parent.

I used to try and be "nice" when people say stupid things. I don't really try any more. My dd is older and she understands and those words hurt.


Teresa- you lost me on this one "When a friend of mine was adopting her latest baby, I was just worried sick for her. I can't even imagine how much worse it is for the parents."

 

[princesskayla]

I just love the cake picture. Too Cute!!!! I am glad she is healthy. The NICU is such a wonderful place in my option. They take such good care of those sweet babies - maybe one day I'll cross train and learn to take care of the tinies.

OK, no laughing allowed!! I'm just following the post everything rule.

Thank goodness I screwed up the flannel because I will be using it a lot to practice. Hopefully he'll have a nice initial shirt to wear before the summer is over. Tips, tips, tips, please!!! Someone else had the Hello Kitty Janome, and I remember she said she had appliqued on it. I totally just flew by the seat of my pants on this one. I have no idea what the technical terms are, so I played with lots of little dials and settings. Have no idea which was the "right" one or what would make the stitching look better. However, I am glad to have finished the pants!!!

I second the stabilizer thing - when I first started I just used regular paper cause I didn't want to to go the store. just to get stabilizer. It worked!

My first son was an emergency c section but it never bothered me. I was just happy that he was healthy. There was no option when my 2nd son was born because in those days they routinely always did sections for subsequent pregnancies. I was awake though. Maybe it was the times-70s and early 80s- but I was perfectly fine with no vag delivery.

Good - I am glad that you feel that way. Now that I am older and wiser I am not sure why it was so awful to have a c/s. Maybe cause it is easier to see the big picture later. Hind sight is 20/20!

Yep I am a figment of your imagination when it comes to birth/baby stories. I have been actually told that I "don't count" and that I have no idea what a woman goes through. So when this topic pops up I usually take a break for a few days.

Not so nice. Everyone has a story about how they became parents. I like to hear them all.