Ok,IMHO there is no comparison and it is Chef Mickeys all the way unless:
You do not like characters
You want a good steak over choice for everybody
You want a break from sillyness and would like a serious meal
Thre is no place like it for the disney magic and your 5 year old should love it.
Sorry if I offend anyone, thats just what I would do, good luck choosing and may your trip be sprinkled with pixie dust,
Claire