Cruise ships are an unbelievable mix of conflicting cultures of the world between the staff and the passengers. And I have learned so much about the world from my cruises.
On a HAL cruise our server touched on the cultures were tipping is not only not the norm, a tip is considered an insult. He said you just learn that is part of the job.
That same server was wrapping up 10 years on ships, and was planning to retire back home to Indonesia at age 31 because his salary and tips made him rich by his homeland standards.
On our
Disney cruise, there was a heated discussion near the pools over smoking policy. A guest upset that there were restrictions on where he could smoke. In his homeland any effort to restrict smoking was against the last.
And on our Celebrity cruise in October, the staff were undergoing special training for the NEXT cruise which was a charter cruise organized by Atlantis, a company that specializes in gay cruises. The training was on how to properly deal with intoxicated guests who attempt to touch the staff. Mix that with a staff that may come from cultures where being gay is still a criminal offense, it can be a tricky situation. Our server said Atlantis charters ships several times a year, and 2 to 3 staff members get fired during these charters for not strictly following the procedure Celebrity has for dealing with such situations.
On this same cruise, he said none of the Indonesian crew members would be allowed to get off the ship in Santa Barbara because of a history of those staff members trying to jump ship and claim political asylum. Why Santa Barbara had that restriction, and San Francisco and Los Angeles did not, I have no idea.