It was the tone of entitlement that creates answers like the OP has received.
I don't see the OP's question as a case of entitlement. It's just a lack of understanding of what DVC is and how it works. Combined with a hefty dose of "magical thinking".
OP, please don't think I'm criticizing you here, or singling you out. That's not my intention at all.
So many people come out of the DVC sales presentation in this same state. They've been immersed in the expert Disney marketing, with the "buy a piece of the magic", and the "welcome home" and all that. They listen to the presentation and buy right there, having done little or no research, just taking whatever the salesman says at face value, and happily initial next to the friendly little Mickey heads on the paperwork. The POS and legal documents go in a box in the basement, never having been looked at.
And then they form their own assumptions about what DVC is and what they're getting. Some of it is wishful thinking, some of it is born of a belief that Disney's not a company, it's a 'family', and Disney loves all of their customers very, very much and would never do anything to make them unhappy, and so forth.
And because it's Disney, they don't have anywhere near the level of healthy suspicion that they might have before signing a 40 year contract with any other real estate developer. It's Disney, so it'll be OK.
And then we get them here, bitterly disappointed that the number of points it takes to cruise has gone up , or shocked that they don't get free dining, or angry that their free valet parking perk went away overnight.
Never underestimate the power of Disney marketing. We sometimes get posts here along the lines of "I really, really, REALLY want to buy DVC, but I'm not sure what it is...can somebody tell me?"