I have no idea what is the 'norm' for grown kids to do for their parents' celebration. I thought my mom wanted a small (just family, and extended family and the very closest of friends - less than 30 ppl) for their celebration. Turns out she wants to invite 100 people, and have it be a renewal of vows with us as the honor attendants!
So, as one of the daughters, I'm beginning to think we're expected to be the hosts of this event, and work out the details for her. This is completely news to me - and she's decided this needs to happen in the next 6 weeks!
Did anyone host a 50th for your parents, what is the norm for the celebration level of formality, is this like a mini-wedding kind of thing all over again? Is it the kids who are the hosts? OMG, I am so behind in all of this!