Did you marry your soulmate?

[mark&sue]

I had to say no as my husband just does not understand why I love WDW and our DVC so much. If he was my soulmate I would not have to spend so much time on here!!!!!!



Susan

 

[DVC Jen]

I did. I knew the second I saw him that I was going to marry him. We have been together for nearly 21 years and will celebrate 19 years of marriage in December.

Although we have had our tough times I can't and don't even want to imagine life without him. He makes me madder than anyone else ever could, drives me totally crazy.. and yet he is my best friend, my lover, my confidant, and the only person I want to grow old (ok older ) with.

 

[luvmy2sams]

Yes....I believe that DH and I were destined for each other. We've been together for 15 years, married for the last 10.5 of those. Marriage takes a ton of committment and work, but doing so with your best friend makes it a little easier.

 

[Jeafl]

I did. I knew the second I saw him that I was going to marry him. We have been together for nearly 21 years and will celebrate 19 years of marriage in December.

Although we have had our tough times I can't and don't even want to imagine life without him. He makes me madder than anyone else ever could, drives me totally crazy.. and yet he is my best friend, my lover, my confidant, and the only person I want to grow old (ok older ) with.

I could have written this word for word. Only we have been together almost 23 years and just celebrated our 20th anniversary

(boy that makes me sound old. I was a child bride...)

 

[ashjohnson80]

no way. i don't know if there is a such thing as a soulmate but if there is i think i screwed up. oh well.

 

[Disney Ella]

No, but then I don't believe in that soulmate stuff either. I have been married twenty years to the same person, which is pretty amazing considering how much we've both changed over the years.

 

[jimmiej]

Yes! 24+ years and happier than than ever!

 

[MandM-Mom]

I definitly married my soulmate! I always knew my husband was the one and he says he always knew I was the one we just took a while to find each other again.......My husband and I grew up next door to each other, we would play together as children and later when both our famillies moved away we would occasionally see each other, of course it always had to be when one of us was with a boyfriend or girlfriend my parents always knew I had a crush on him and his family always knew he had one on me, yet we never told each other. In my third year of college I came home for the summer and went to a party, who was there, him!!! We have been together ever since! We actually ended up buying (but later selling) and moving into the house his parents sold when we were kids, the one right next to my home when I was a child, fate!!

 

[lulugirl]

No, but he's great cook so I keep him around anyhow.

 

[vettechick99]

I don't believe in soulmates. I think there are many people I could have married and been happy with.

DH is awesome though, so I'm happy I married him. I'm very lucky.

ditto for me!

 

[HoneyPooh]

Yep! We've known each other since we were 7 yo (we're now 42) and we've been married 20 years this past July. We dated other people before we married but always came back to each other as best friends and a shoulder to lean on. We've had a few rough spots in our married life but we've always been able to come through them stronger than ever. I don't think I could have been so strong with anyone else, I think I would have given up. Yes, I'm sure I could be compatible with other people, but I don't think I could ever entrust my whole heart like I do with DH.

 

[mickeyfan2]

now it seems he may be leaving the world well before I do.

Sorry to hear that. I hope that both of you stay around for a long time.

 

[Kahana-ri]

Yes, I believe I have married my soul mate. He is loving, caring and a perfect father to our son. We have been together for almost ten years. We began with nothing and took all of life's punches just to land on a our feet together. Sure there are times when its not bliss, but we seem to always find a way to make it work.

 

[mickeysaver]

I would love to marry my soulmate. We have been living together for about 6 years now. But, since lesbians are not allowed to get married in the US, we are waiting until we can get up to Canada. One day, my country will catch on. Maggie

 

[J.Cooper]

Yep I married my soulmate! We were high school sweethearts. Been married for almost 11 yrs. I feel very blessed!

 

[ThAnswr]

Yes, I did and we've been married for 18 years. The second I saw him, I knew he was the "one".

 

[Tigger&Belle]

I don't believe in soulmates. I think there are many people I could have married and been happy with.

I totally agree! I do not believe that there is one "right" person for each of us. If that were the case, think of the odds of each of us actually finding that one right person.

I've been married for 23 years and do think that I married someone who was a good match, even though you could say that we're in kind of a rocky point of our marriage right now. I really only met him by chance, however. If I hadn't met him I have a pretty good idea who I would have ended up marrying. Strange to think about!

 

[mickeyboat]

I don't believe in soulmates. I think there are many people I could have married and been happy with.

DH is awesome though, so I'm happy I married him. I'm very lucky.

I didn't vote, but I agree with you, Carla. DH and I met in 8th grade, got together in 9th grade, survived a 7 year long-distance relationship, law school, infertility, two failed pregnancies, a premature baby, the death of his mother and the complete renovation of our home. (Wow - that's pretty incredible when I really think about it). I love him unconditionally, and could not imagine my life without him.

But if something were to happen to him, I truly believe I could find love again. And I would want him to do the same.

Denae

 

[shortbun]

I think there are several happy matches out there for me and I found several along the path but I married my soulmate. I don't think you understand 'soulmate' unless you've found one. I'm not saying it's necessary nor that those who don't "have" that feeling are lacking somehow. I'm just saying that there is some deep attachment that is undefinable and it quiets the inner beast. Sometimes, it makes me laugh right outloud and I've been with him for 24 years.

 

[snoopy]

I didn't vote, but I agree with you, Carla. DH and I met in 8th grade, got together in 9th grade, survived a 7 year long-distance relationship, law school, infertility, two failed pregnancies, a premature baby, the death of his mother and the complete renovation of our home. (Wow - that's pretty incredible when I really think about it). I love him unconditionally, and could not imagine my life without him.

But if something were to happen to him, I truly believe I could find love again. And I would want him to do the same.

Denae

And I could have written your post, give or take some of the details.