Ugh, head. I graduated college during the recession and it was ridiculously hard to find a job. So I took what I could get, which happened to be basically the complete opposite of any industry I EVER wanted to be in. I don't love the job itself, and if I was just following my heart, I wouldn't be here. But I have great health and retirement benefits, and a generous amount of PTO. Post-covid I'm on a hybrid work schedule, and I have a lovely boss and great co-workers.
I COULD pursue a line of work that is more for my heart - and maybe someday I will - but right now, I'm in a good spot that helps provide for my family and also allows me flexibility to BE with my family. I actually had an opportunity several years ago to pivot to something that was much closer to my dream job - but of course the timing didn't line up with my family plans at the moment. I'd applied a full YEAR earlier, and they finally called for an interview just after we'd started trying for another baby. I did the interview and then found out I was pregnant literally the same week that the job offer came, and I knew that starting a new job just to go out on maternity was going to be a no-go. It really hurt to have to turn it down, though.