Getting the balance just right seems to be so hard! 7:45 is awesome for the late seating, yet 5:30 for the early seating is definitely too early for just about everyone! I am so very glad that I do not have to make decisions that impact so many people, right down to the servers.
We have opted for late seating since DD8 is a nightowl, and I figure on a late afternoon snack for her anyway. With all the activities, it is better for her to eat less food more often to keep up her energy level.