DH Passed Away Suddenly Before Our Trip - Update Post 267

[FlightlessDuck]

I don't know how I would survive without my wife. I am very sorry for you and your family's loss.

I hope you are still able to have fun and at the same time honor and remember your husband well during your trip.

 

[Disneyaunt4]

Lilo's Mom I am so sorry for your loss, I don't even have the words to say how much. I am sure Bob would want you to go on your trip and I know he will be there with you

 

[sarah g]

God bless you..I am so sorry for your loss.

 

[ScootchsMom]

I'm new, but couldn't not post.....

I am so so so sorry for your loss. I think continuing your trip in memory of him is a wonderful way to stay close to him.

Many healing thoughts headed your way.

 

[dancin'girl]

I am so sorry for your loss.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

 

[Deesknee]

Prayers to you and your family.

I didn't read all of the responses to this post, but in case noone else mentioned it, there is a coping and compassion thread on this board. You will find it if you scroll down a bit.

I hope the trip helps cleanse your sorrow.

 

[tiggspring]

Wow I'm sorry sorry! What a wonderful tribute to your husband!!
I lost my DH 19 years ago when we were both 24 after a wonderful 7 years together. I still remember how overwheled with grief I felt. I too when to his favorite places, a zoo that he helped design,the beach etc as a way for me to honor him. Sometimes I could do it and sometimes it was too much.
Sounds like you have great family suport. Know that there are many of us here that understand your pain and are sending caring thoughts your way.

 

[Tinkh]

May God bless you at this very sad time. I think you are amazing for the way you are going to honor his memory.

 

[chipsgirl1030]

I'm so sorry for your loss, you are in my prayers. I will be in Disney next week and will toss a coin into the wishing well wishing you peace and comfort and hope for future happiness.

 

[liz827]

I am so sorry!!

 

[akamoniker]

I am so sorry for your loss!

Please remember that we carry our loved ones with us forever in our hearts.

He will be with you.

 

[indigoxtreme]

Our prayers are with you and your family. I know you will have a good time remembering his laughs and enjoyments of the activities at WDW.

 

[djblu883]

I'm so very sorry your soulmate died! Few people actually ever find that kind of bond! I'm so very glad you chose to go on with your vacation! He most certainly would want and appreciate your celebration of your love in his "Happiest Place on Earth"!!!!! I do totally understand how you feel and it's why I go to WDW atleast once a year! You are in my thoughts and prayers and Ill say a special prayer for you on May 5th!!!

 

[MomWith2Cinderellas]

So sorry for your loss. We take the love with us and leave love to heal our broken hearts.

 

[jemgumby]

I am so sorry for your loss.

 

[tink20]

So deeply sorry for your loss. Bless you and your family.

 

[summerlady]

I'm so sorry, my thoughts are with you.

 

[TinkerbelleAbbysMom]

So sorry for your loss! Please do enjoy your trip. Praying pixie dust for your trip to make it extra special! And be on the lookout for "things" to remind you he is with you. For example, the first yellow butterfly I see of the Spring I always say, "Hi Nanny" as if she is coming to check on me. Yellow was her fav color and she loved butterflies! Since this was one of his fav places to be, I'm sure you will see him everywhere!! And don't be afraid to let the tears flow while you are there too! This trip will be such a healing for you!!

 

[Katie Dawn]

 

[ugadog99]

I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope you find peace through your trip and the memorial you have planned for your husband.



This is the very reason that I will never put my job, my children's school, or anything else above our time together as a family. Life is too short to put anything but your family first.