I am coming out of the woodworks with all this mortgage talk.. we are set to pay off our mortgage on Thursday! We are young (mid-late 30’s) and maybe it didn’t make the most financial sense as our interest rate was low, it brings so much peace of mind and freedom. My husband works in a volatile industry, so the thought that we now own our house completely should something ever happen to his income is a safety I am thankful to have. I am not telling anyone in my “real life” as I don’t want to sound braggy, but I knew my Dis friends would understand how happy this makes me !
I think the fact that you're worried about sounding braggy means you're not trying to be braggy at all. Congrats, that's really exciting! We can all be plenty excited and happy for you
I know when we've off-handedly mentioned that we paid our student loans off to real life people we pretty much got brushed off or got flack over it (except my grandpa, he was happy for us) but everyone here will help you celebrate your wins!!
Congratulations Minniemoo and Amalone!!
This is sad that people can't just happily share good financial news with people they know. I was warned of this by a coworker whose house is paid off. She said it's been years for them but some family members still don't know and she'd never mention it or she and her husband would be constantly hit up to borrow $$ from so it's better to stay quiet.
It's a shame some people who are jealous I guess can't just be happy for someone's good fortune.
My bff went from a miserable childhood, abused by her siblings, both parents dead by age 16 and dropped out of HS at 16 and now she and her dh are multi millionaires with 5 adorable grandchildren. I am thrilled for her.
In non budget news:
Went to the doctor yesterday and got to see Peanut. Confirmed by ultrasound that it's a boy!! The girls are super excited to have a baby brother. And I'm pretty excited to experience being a boy mom.
Congratulations Tygerlilly!! Boys rock! Of course they're all I know so I can't compare.
Congrats Tygerlilly!!!!!!
Do you guys have any advice on good cards for balance transfer these days? The cc thread moves crazy fast so I thought I'd ask here to see what everyone is doing. We have some expenses from moving and now our washer is shot and we need a new dryer soon too so it looks like I'm buying a set. I don't have enough is savings to cover it all (probably about 5k total) and I'd rather not drain my savings anyway. I'm looking to put it all on my best card for cash back and then transfer the balance to something new so I can take my time paying it off. I saw a few options on Nerdwallet that look good but just wanted to get a second opinion/ advice here (Other than store credit cards for the washer and dryer- not opposed to the idea just want to explore my options). My Discover is giving my 9 months 0% which would be helpful and then I could move the balance again if I'm not done, but i want to explore other options. I've only done balance transfers once or twice in the past so any advice in general on the process would be awesome! DH and I both have excellent credit so we should (theoretically of course) be eligible for almost anything.
Other than that not much to report. Chipping away at DH's medical expenses and the move went well! Starting my new job next week!
We often get BT offers from our Discover cards and the latest one is 12 months at 0% and 3% BT fee. Since you already have a different offer from Discover, I'd look around for something better if you don't mind a minor hit on your credit score for opening a new account.
Calling all car buyers. First off, don't hate on me or belittle me for these questions. I've had a crap morning. I'm grumpy. I'm looking for helpful advice. I don't need someone trolling me today.
Car repairs are going to be around $3k. This is on a 2012 Chev. with nearly 160K miles.
Options: 1. Repair car. Obviously the cheaper route. But considering the age and wear on the engine, this may be the beginning.
2. Buy a used car. 2019 Honda Pilot with every bell and whistle. 20.5k miles $32k
3. Buy a new car. 2021 Toyota Rav4 hybrid with every bell and whistle. 0 miles. $38k
4. Buy a new car. 2021 Toyota Rav4 hybrid with half of the stuff. $32k
I'm looking for any advice. We've prequalified for 2.4% on a new car loan. 3.04% on used. Toyota is not running any financing specials on hybrids, unfortunately. We're looking to switch because we don't see gas prices dropping anytime soon. Also looking at AWD vehicles because I've been stranded in the last two snow storms. And I know our insurance will go up. I'm trying to brace for impact here.
I'm certainly not happy about increasing our debt. That said, because we've worked so hard, our credit scores are wonderful and our loan rates will be okay. We haven't bought a new car since 1997. I know the school of thought is that their depreciation is so crazy, but they also have 3 year warranties. The last used car we bought was on a whim, my 2012 Chevy. Great car, but we didn't think the financing through. This time, it's about being wise.
While we don't have to make the decision in the next hour or two, I'd like to try and gather some opinions and schools of thought. Just so disappointed. But, that said, I know I can still pay off the CC debt by Oct. at zero percent. Going to get my hustle on.
Sorry I can't help you decide which car is the better deal but just want to say I totally feel your pain. The check engine light came on this week in dh's truck so we dropped it off at our local Chevy shop last night and now they are estimating $6000.

It started running very rough around the time the check engine light came on and they're saying it needs new cams and lifters. Whatever that is.
It's a 2011 Silverado 4x4 with 80-something thousand miles on it. These trucks are like tanks so mileage is low compared to how much life it still has in it. Even buying a new truck would be difficult because the need of repair would seriously devalue the truck as a trade-in. A new similar truck would be around $50k and we don't like shopping urgently.
So we are paying the ridiculous amount to get it fixed. I wish we had a great, honest mechanic that we could trust.
Makes me sick. We have 2 weeks left of paying off ds20's school costs and was looking forward to kicking out the mortgage by next Christmas. This will set us back another 2 months. Dh has a "slush fund" as he calls it, so we can tap savings to pay it but then later build that back up.
Considering the state of the world, it could be something a lot worse.
My humble opinion would be to choose the vehicle that you
desire the most. At least then when you make car payments, you love the vehicle you're driving which helps soften the blow. You've had an incredibly difficult year and you deserve to get the one you love.