Thank you for the warm welcome! When we get our tax return, it will cover the entire furniture loan. So that should be paid off by Spring.

On the 2 high balance CCs, I'm only able to pay the minimum. Since being in debt, I haven't done a budget. I haven't done one because I stopped over spending and using my credit cards and also it seems like, I get paid, pay day care and after school care, pay the minimum on my CCs, fill up my tank, buy lunch supplies for the week, then it's gone!
Thank you for the suggestions. It's so hard when you're so determined to do this but the funds aren't there. Everyone around us is claiming bankruptcy and forclosing. I never want to do that. We got ourselves into this mess, I want us to get ourselves out![/QUOTE]
I often get discouraged, too, when things don't work out on the paper (software) budget and want to stop. But, if you can spend it in real life, you can allocate it in a budget first... It may not look pretty, but it will still help. First of all, it may be that you can shave off some money somewhere, maybe groceries or something. If you aren't tracking your expenses, then maybe you're spending more than you think you are (this happens to me all the time!). You never really know until you're documenting it in some form and analyzing it. Look at each and every bill/expense area and see what you can do to shave something off... Using less gas, spending less on lunch supplies, etc. finding an extra $30 will help!
Once you do this, if you find there truly is nothing left over, then the next step is to see how you can raise more money. Some people get a different (higher paying) job, add a second job, start selling things around the house, etc. Every penny that you were paying on the smaller cards and furniture loan (once it's paid off) can be rolled over into the smaller of the bigger cards, while continuing the minimum on the larger one, and then once that is done you can roll all of that over to the last one. Plan on your tax refund going towards this each year until it's paid off. Or, adjust your withholdings so you won't get a refund, and use the extra each month to add to the balances.
Once you sit down and plan all of this, hopefully you can see the light at the end of the tunnel and this won't seem so daunting. Mr. Money Mustasche, my favorite money guy (his blog is more about finding satisfaction in life without "stuff") talks about addressing debt like your hair is on fire. So, if you keep that attitude, along with some changes like eating a lot of beans and rice, maybe this won't take nearly as long as you fear.
You have a great attitude, now just have faith in yourself that you can do it![/QUOTE]