Dealing with The Loss of a Son

[MEK]

I hope you are doing as well as you can be. Thinking about you on the anniversary of the loss of your son!

 

[weswife]

I came upon this site tonight. I read each post and now have tears rolling down my cheecks. I do not have any advice or wisdom to share. I just wanted to say my heart breaks for you and tonight I will say a prayer.

Last May the specialist told us our DD was coming to the end of her life. To make a long story short he "jumped the gun" so to speak and thought her brain was getting worse. After 2 weeks of testing we received the news it was not that at all. This all took place during Mothers day last year. The worst Mothers day ever.

 

[pfishgirl]

I came upon this site tonight. I read each post and now have tears rolling down my cheecks. I do not have any advice or wisdom to share. I just wanted to say my heart breaks for you and tonight I will say a prayer.

Last May the specialist told us our DD was coming to the end of her life. To make a long story short he "jumped the gun" so to speak and thought her brain was getting worse. After 2 weeks of testing we received the news it was not that at all. This all took place during Mothers day last year. The worst Mothers day ever.

Its been a Very Long time since I have been back on these boards. I was almost afraid to look. I hope your DD is doing well and such a horrible thing to have to go through with a misdiagnosis like that

 

[pfishgirl]

I hope you are doing as well as you can be. Thinking about you on the anniversary of the loss of your son!

Thank You so much.. I apologize, I had left Dis behind for a long time so I never saw this til Today.. Im not even sure what made me look it up either..

 

[pfishgirl]

Thinking of my nephew Damien and my niece Stacy on this day. Hugs to all the families who have lost a son or daughter. Damien we miss you.
Aunt Michele

Thank You Aunt Michele

 

[pfishgirl]

Hi Stacy, I'm so sorry for your loss. I really don't know how I came across this thread but I'm glad I ended up here. Hope things are getting better. YOU DESERVE THE BEST FROM LIFE. Try doing things your son would love to do, that should keep his memory at best. I KNOW he's watching you up from heaven and smiling. Sending you lots of positive thoughts and hugs.

Thank You.. it has been a LONG 5 years 7 months for sure But YES I am happy to say my life has some order and Im doing well.

 

[pfishgirl]

I understand how you feel. I lost my daughter when she was only 14 and the pain seemed unbearable. She was every Dad's Dtr. It was so bad that I would pull off on the side of the road on my way to work and cry. For five years I visited her grave site every day and said a prayer. I am now starting to realize that she's O.K. and in a better place. When my time comes, She will be the first one to greet me. I pray that in time you will feel the same about your son. You will never be over the pain but be grateful you had him as long as you did and one day you will be to- gether.

thank you.. again I apologize, I have not been on Dis in a long time so Im just seeing this now. I am so sorry for your Loss. It wont ever go away we just learn how to live through it and when it's our time I agree they will be waiting for us with opened arms

 

[dvc at last !]

Good thoughts and prayers.

 

[pfishgirl]

Good thoughts and prayers.

Thank You

 

[Halloweenqueen]

So happy to hear you are doing better. Did you finish school?