tinknme
<font color=green>I happened to be posting on the
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Janet,
I was thinking of what to say about your concerns of when to tell the boys. When the family loves going to Disney, it of course is harder to tell the kids that Mom and Dad are going without them. Sorta different if Mom and Dad were going to a spa or a B&B or something like that. I started telling my kids when I went away with or without Hal that it was my time to go and have some fun. I needed to regroup and that was the way I was going to. Then when I am with them, we will have the best time ever. We will always have the memories to look back on. But there are just some times that the adults get to go by themselves. I used to say that one day they will understand when they are saying the same thing to their kids if they do get married!!!
But now they tell me that they understand what I meant. They haven't had to explain yet to the kids because they are still too young to understand.
You know your kids better than anyone else. Maybe if you tell them before Christmas, they could get you something for your trip. Or they could make something for your trip.
Thank you for the nice words Terry
