I never try and convince myself or the people I’m with that a listed wait time is less than it’s posted, except for Tower of Terror. And that goes for any ride at any park, not just Universal or Disney. If I’m at a park and I want to get on a ride, if it looks to be too long and will stay long all day, I’ll hop in line at the end of the night. And that’s where Disney and Universal have the edge over smaller parks. There’s themed areas you can go walk around when the lines elsewhere might be a little too long. Six Flags, Cedar Fair, most of their parks are either rides, games, or food courts, other than Knotts.
Im no longer bothered by wait times for rides that I want to go on. If I see a 90 minute wait at Soace Mountain, it’s not as big of a deal now that I’m an adult. But for children waiting in a 90 minute line, it’s probably more of a chore for the parents