No particular episode in my case, but a coupe of yrs. ago we had police officer killed on our street so that put us off on Criminal Minds until recently. As much as we loved Garcia the show's tone was just too dark for us to stomach for awhile after that.
Yes, that certainly is too close & can put someone off of the show.
OK, I've been peeking in on this thread the past couple of weeks cause DH & I have somewhat picked up the show on A&E. We had watched the first few seasons and then got off of it for awhile. So apparently I need someone to seriously catch me up. Particularly on Hotch and his family. When we stopped Hotch was getting divorced. Now she's dead
The trouble with seeing it on A&E is they run it on a loop and if you wait 2 weeks you'll see the same episode come around. Its a bother watching it that way.
So if somebody would catch me up I'd appreciate it.
What happened to Hotch's wife is part of this season's story line with the Reaper. So, even if you kept waiting for A&E or Ion, they wouldn't show the missing episodes from this season for a while.
It can be frustrating because all of the past seasons, if they had a story line about a particular team member, like Garcia or Reid, they usually wrapped it up the following week - and it was in the same season. You wouldn't expect to tune in and suddenly the show has become like,
Lost, where you had to have been following along to know what's been happening. This season, they changed the format.
For Hotch, his story line jumps a bit, and the bulk of it happened on CBS
this season. And they have rerun all those episodes already.
Here's a spoiler to catch you up. Don't read any further if you want to wait and watch it!
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Hotch & Haley SPOILER ALERT!!! (DO NOT READ FURTHER if You do NOT want to know what happens.)
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CaliforniaDreamin did a fantastic job of recapping the Reaper story line. It can be read in this post here.
http://www.disboards.com/showpost.php?p=36455062&postcount=224
So, I'll just fill in the Hotch & Haley part:
Hotch & Hailey have been divorced for a while. He's living alone in an apartment now. Hotch put his job first over his family. But through bits & pieces of different episodes, Hotch would take Haley & Jack back in a split second, if she would come back.
The last episode which reruns on A&E featuring the Reaper is Part 2 of the gruesome "pig farm" episode. You see a guy in a mask, (The Reaper,) at the end of the show appear behind Hotch as he's at his apartment taking a drink. He shoots at Hotch.
Cut to: The first episode of
this season (on CBS, Hotch & the Reaper get into a huge fight. The Reaper tortures Hotch & stabs him several times but makes sure he doesn't stab in places that would kill Hotch.

Then he actually takes him to the hospital, to make sure Hotch doesn't die in the apartment.
The Reaper doesn't kill Hotch because he wants him to
emotionally suffer instead of being dead. He targets Hotch's wife & son instead. He won't go after them if Hotch (and the team) don't go after the Reaper.
Of course, Hotch being Hotch, he can't go for a deal like that. Instead, Hotch has Haley & Jack put in protective custody/witness protection, where they will be living as other people, hiding away in some other area of the country, until Hotch can catch the Reaper.
They don't know how long it will take to catch the Reaper, or how long Haley & Jack will have to hide away. Hotch promises Haley that once this is all over, he will spend the rest of his life making it up to her.
The Reaper, was a computer expert. Somehow he set it up that his computer would alert him if anyone ever did a web database search on the alias name he has been using while hiding away. The alarm goes off. He knows that must mean Hotch & the team are on to him. He sets off to go kill Haley & Jack before Hotch can get him or get to Haley & Jack.
CaliforniaDreamin fills in the rest of the story at the link above.
Oh, and I recapped the actual climax episode here. It's been whited out. Highlight with your mouse to read it.
http://www.disboards.com/showpost.php?p=34473835&postcount=74 