But I have to use scent free on detergent (I'm allergic to all fragrances),
totaly get it-both myself and my youngest get terrible migraines from scented products which i why i get the arm and hammer.
But I have to use scent free on detergent (I'm allergic to all fragrances),
I think you kinda missed my point: Don't chase the credit score, which is a measure of how well you repay your debts. Aim for financial stability -- spending less, no debt, accumulating savings -- and the credit score will follow.Oh, I totally agree that individuals shouldn't chase a better score or even use debt. However, I understand that not everyone agrees, so at least taking actions to improve a low score can have a positive universal effect.
Unfortunately, once someone is seen as a credit risk, it can affect all areas of their life. Low credit scores can negatively impact credit card rates, rent or security deposits, car insurance, employment, etc.
If someone is struggling with high rates everywhere, it can be hard to make progress anywhere. So, focusing on timely payments while reducing balances can help a tough situation from getting worse.
If anyone needs encouragement, please feel free to stop by The Dave Ramsey 'Baby Steps' Thread.
Yeah, I understand. I remember when we were expecting our second child -- in anticipation of her arrival, I cleaned out the closet in our spare bedroom, and I was ashamed of what I found: Things I'd bought for the house, things I'd bought for our older child, etc. -- all still in the bags! Clothes our older child had already outgrown. Things I'd intended to give people for Christmas.I used to be SO BAD about this (and honestly, sometimes still am). I've been purging closets and it's crazy how many things I got "for a deal!" that were never even used.
I agree!Don't chase the credit score, which is a measure of how well you repay your debts. Aim for financial stability -- spending less, no debt, accumulating savings -- and the credit score will follow.
Isn’t Amazon prime a membership?We only stream the ESPN/Hulu/Disney package and Discovery+. But we do the ads version. Wife absolutely hates sitting through 3 minutes of ads. She'd rather pay $1 more per month than sit watch ads. And Amazon music is part of the Amazon Prime package we have. So no Spotify or other music streaming. I do YouTube, but we're thinking about upgrading to commercial free version due to having to sit through 30 seconds of ads every 5 minutes (we probably won't, but I'm seriously thinking about it).
No memberships for us that I know of.
And as far as cell phones, I recently upgraded from a slider phone to an Iphone. I typically just use it to make/receive phones, but I don't take on many. Maybe just 3-4 a day. And I text about 15 messages a day. Don't get online or anything. And I have the cheapest package offered by Verizon at $115/month.
Yes, $15 a month.Isn’t Amazon prime a membership?
We have a couple of friends whom regularly donate plasma. This really is a win-win situation. Helping others & making easy money for doing so!I have poor college students, dd21 gave plasma a few times, but it didn’t work out due to an infection. I think dd23 is going to give it a shot, I think you can donate twice a week?
Isn’t Amazon prime a membership?
I recommend Straight Talk for phones. It’s $49 a month for limited everything, talk text and data.
Also, I started shopping at Aldi and save at least 30% from my previous grocery store, and everything there has been high quality as well as more economical.
FYI, you don’t have to change phone numbers to switch carriers!Yea, I guess Amazon is a membership. It goes into our streaming. Plus we buy stuff there (like makeup for my wife) cause it's cheaper than Walmart. We tried Aldi (went in looking for Disney stuff because DW saw something on TikTok), and we just felt uncomfortable there. Felt like the food was cheap or leftover stuff Walmart didn't sell. And we haven't been back.
As far as switching phones, I'm not going to do that. I've had my same number since 2005. I can't change my phone number at this point. I know excuse. But I truly don't want to change my number after having it for nearly 20 years.
It was probably not long after 2005 when the new phone number requirement went away. You can switch carriers and keep your number!As far as switching phones, I'm not going to do that. I've had my same number since 2005. I can't change my phone number at this point.
off topic but-i just started binging an old network sitcom that i ended up recording off hallmark. i was very surprised at how much hallmark bleeps out dialogue-they bleep out stuff that would have flown right by on the insp channel which i always found to be the most restrictive i have encountered (given the subject matter of the sitcom i'm binging i don't understand why, if hallmark channel is so conservative they are even airing the particular comedy).For streaming I didn't want to cut cable until I can find a replacement for Hallmark (I know) lol
We found Frndly TV and I think it's $6.99 a month. They have a 7 day free trial.
We tried Aldi (went in looking for Disney stuff because DW saw something on TikTok), and we just felt uncomfortable there. Felt like the food was cheap or leftover stuff Walmart didn't sell. And we haven't been back.
Aldi often uses local farms for meats and produce which saves money in shipping costs. They use private label brands (which are often made by national companies) and they have a lot less items both which save costs to the consumer. They don’t have fancy stores or spend much money on decor or ads but their products have been equal to anything I’ve bought in expensive stores. They certainly don’t buy leftover food from other retailers. And they are the number one contributor to the food banks in our area. But to each his own
I still re-read my "Tightwad Gazette" books. Her numbers aren't valid anymore, but the process is (as far as calculating your costs, re-using things, etc.).You have gotten great ideas on this thread. I remember about a 10 year period that we struggled, well, we were fine, but we had to really watch our spending.
I found a pamphlet on "how to feed a family of 4 on $200/month". That was written in 2020, so I am sure it would be more now, but her ideas and concepts were great and I implemented many of them. Her method for meat was to get a half a cow per 6 months or something like that. We didn't do that because we aren't huge beef eaters, so I just got things on sale and stocked up.
The other book that helped me a lot was The Tightwad Gazette. Yes, it is a bit outdated, but the ideas are still relevant. She said they portioned out the meat (everyone gets 6oz of chicken for example) but they would be allowed unlimited fruit and starch (leftover rice for example could be used for a snack later.). She never bought prepared foods. Things she could buy used, she would buy used. No processed junk that cost money, she had popcorn for snacks. No buying drinks in cans, etc....She said one time her son said he really wanted chips. She told him it was .25 at the store and he could earn it and pay for it himself. I can't remember what she had him do for a chore, but he never asked again.
The main thing is to budget, and stick to it! If you can honestly say you don't make enough to cover basic expenses living very frugally, then you need to change something.....your living situation (move in with parents or downsize, etc...) or something drastic, like getting a less nice car, eating only "ingredients" (no prepared) for a while, put off some repairs or things you may think you need but you can do without a little longer, that sort of thing.
So what I started in college to control my own expenses. Track all expenses,,,dont change habits or spending patterns,,,,track for 3 months. Then I would sit down and put all into categories and see where I could save. You would be amazed on what we spend on that is not neeeded. This is what I now have done for 30 years. I dont need to track so much anymore, but I can quickly root out some bad spending habits that need correction sooner.Here's the basic idea:
I keep track of the "available" bank balance, plus the cash I am carrying, to the penny. I used Quicken for this, but you can use a spreadsheet if you prefer. When I withdraw from the ATM, I enter that in my own records by deducting it from my "available" bank balance but adding it to my cash balance. When that happens my "total money" doesn't change, just where it is.
When I buy something with cash, I keep the receipt, and enter it into my records, deducting it from my cash balance. That means my "total money" goes down. When I buy something with a credit card, I do the same thing, but deduct it from my "available" bank balance. So my "total money" still goes down. That money hasn't left my bank account yet, but it will when the credit card bill is paid.
You can. You just have to do the work to do it. This is why I reconciled my cash balance regularly---every few days---because it helped me catch the times when I forgot to record something. Over time, that happened a lot less often.
So smart!we shop our house first before buying anything. Usually there is almost always something to use up first.
I love Aldi -- and Lidl, which seems to be fairly new to the US or at least to my area. Their prices are good, though we hate their pizza. Their cheese selection is the best in town, and their cheese prices are excellent; for example, goat cheese is literally half the price of the second cheapest price in our area! Also excellent prices on bread and chicken. BUT we can't get everything we want at Aldi; for example, they don't sell Dr. Pepper.Also, I started shopping at Aldi and save at least 30% from my previous grocery store, and everything there has been high quality as well as more economical.
I guess it's possible to feed four people for $200/month ... if two of those four people are small children AND you grow your own veggies, keep your own chickens, eat lots of carbohydrates and little meat, are very careful with leftovers, drink only water, and don't include paper products or cleaning products in that budget.I found a pamphlet on "how to feed a family of 4 on $200/month". That was written in 2020, so I am sure it would be more now, but her ideas and concepts were great and I implemented many of them. Her method for meat was to get a half a cow per 6 months or something like that. We didn't do that because we aren't huge beef eaters, so I just got things on sale and stocked up.
I love that series of books; I think they're the best-written series on frugal living! True, her numbers are no longer valid, but her great strength was always "walking you through" how to find the best prices, so you can still use her lessonsI still re-read my "Tightwad Gazette" books. Her numbers aren't valid anymore, but the process is (as far as calculating your costs, re-using things, etc.).
So true, so true -- I know I buy loads of things that aren't necessary, and I'm MUCH more frugal than most people.You would be amazed on what we spend on that is not neeeded.
Totally agree. When you're young and just learning to manage your own money (or if you're older and just haven't mastered it yet), you need to work harder at it ... but at some point you gain a 6th sense about money, and it falls into place.The money envelopes are a good starting point, but evolve from there