dismom2005
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My Husband had an affair earlier this year with a younger woman. It started out as an emotional affair but turned physical and I found about it shortly after the physical affair started.
We are trying to work out our relationship in Marriage Therapy.
Anyway, I did some digging and found her on Facebook. I know the rational side of me says to just let it be but I have a very strong desire to tell her off via e-mail in FB. I know it's not a good idea but is it that weird or wrong for me to feel this way? She is single and much younger than my Husband and probably has no real clue what she did to me emotionally. I know it was my husband who broke his marriage vows to me but I have e-mail and voicemail proof that she was definitely the one who initiated/chased my husband for months. I guess in some way I want her to have consequences for her actions.
Any thoughts, suggestions? I haven't asked my therapist about this but i'm sure thinking/dwelling on this is probably not helping me move further forward at this point.
We are trying to work out our relationship in Marriage Therapy.
Anyway, I did some digging and found her on Facebook. I know the rational side of me says to just let it be but I have a very strong desire to tell her off via e-mail in FB. I know it's not a good idea but is it that weird or wrong for me to feel this way? She is single and much younger than my Husband and probably has no real clue what she did to me emotionally. I know it was my husband who broke his marriage vows to me but I have e-mail and voicemail proof that she was definitely the one who initiated/chased my husband for months. I guess in some way I want her to have consequences for her actions.
Any thoughts, suggestions? I haven't asked my therapist about this but i'm sure thinking/dwelling on this is probably not helping me move further forward at this point.