Ok. So I spent the weekend mulling over our plans.

I want to run them by the Lodgers. I'll be posting a thread over on Theme Parks and Strategies too.
I managed to get 3 nights in a standard room (room-only ressie) at the Summer Vacation offer rate.

Saved myself 10% from Woods view price

. I'm assuming TAs can still attach room requests, right?
Food will be OOP since DD9 really prefers to order off the adult menu and DD6 will probably share a lot of her food with me. I don't even think I'll try to make TS reservations since we tend to change our plans a lot and don't want to be tied to a schedule for fear of a no-show charge.
I'll purchase 1 day MYW base tickets prior to arrival to do FP+. If we decide to do a second day we will either upgrade during day 1 at the gate or just purchase them on the fly since there really isn't much savings either way.
We'll be traveling early August, myself and 2 DDs (6 and 9). Arriving MCO around 1pm. DME to the resort with bathing suits in our carryon, hopefully by 3pm.
Arrival day - probably swim and just eat at RF. 6:45p - Playtime on the beach and roast marshmallows. We'll probably get to bed for an early start.
Day 1 - no EMH at MK. Bus to MK for rope drop (or boat to CR and walk? We had trouble with boats for rope drop in May 2010 using the MK boat). Goal of DD6

is probably to see Ana and Elsa (do this first!), not sure on DD9. Experience what we can based on crowds. TP is suggesting a crowd level of 8.

We usually tour with 6 being the busiest for us. Even that hasn't happened since 2006. Kids prefer M&Gs and shows over rides. See New Fantasyland and Storybookland, water play area, carousel, Tom Sawyer Island, etc.
Honestly I'm torn about this because I don't want to spend so much money on a one or 2 day ticket and then spend all of our time in long lines. This is really the key to whether I will decide to keep our reservation since we've never taken such a short trip.
I think we're likely to snack all day or just eat QS lunch, hopefully at an off-peak mealtime. FoF Parade, and then back to the resort for a break via the boat. Then possibly boat to CR for dinner at Contempo Cafe and a monorail ride to the park. Find a spot for MSEP and Wishes

preferably in Town Square.
Day 2 - Enjoy the Lodge! This is why I want to go to WDW right now. Explore the Lodge, perhaps breakfast at WCC. Arcade, checkers in the Carolwood Pacific room, try both pools, whatever suits us. (I'm concerned that we'll be tempted into a second day in the parks, so I wonder if I should move our resort day to Day 1). Before 7pm make our way to FW for the Chip and Dale Campfire and Singalong. Then back to WL (I doubt we'll be able to stay for the movie), maybe watching EWP from the beach (9:35).
Departure Day - For now I am planning to stick around the WL. Resort Airline checkin before 1pm. DME departure around 3.
What does everyone think? I know that I would be happy in a lounge or rocking chair at the WL for 3 days. I know the kids won't get bored. I'm just concerned about a) one jam packed day in the MK being nothing but frustration and/or b)the kids not being satisfied with missing out on more of that park or other parks.

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Thanks for reading!